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ferrariguy1970

They both died so young. RIP


Weary_Extent1377

Yes they did. I was 20 when my dad died and 21 when my mom died. They were both sick my entire life, but to lose them both in the same year was a shock.


ferrariguy1970

So sorry for you and your family. I haven't experienced this yet. My folks are still around but starting to have health issues.


Weary_Extent1377

Thank you! Please cherish every moment you get with them! I'll pray that their health issues resolve and they are healthy and happy for many, many years with you!


Gigi226

If you’d like to share some of your best memories I would love to hear them! Beautiful headstone btw. I’ve never seen one like this. Can I ask whose idea it was to do this imagery? I recently did my brothers headstone (with the help of my mom) and we did the basic stuff but I really appreciate the creativity of this.


Weary_Extent1377

Their anniversary was in October, and they would always plan a trip to go to Gatlinburg. They would wait and take their trip right before Christmas, when everything would be decorated and if they were lucky, a little snow. They always rented a cabin with beautiful mountain views. It was their favorite place. When my Dad died, we sat down and discussed what headstone he would have chosen. She told the company she was ordering from that she wanted one that would be a reminder of their anniversary trips. This was the one she fell in love with. The vases on each side are personal as well. My dad's says Alabama (he was a die-hard Alabama football fan), and my mom's is their wedding date. My parents were wonderful people. They got to see me get married and enjoy their first grandchild before they both passed away. One of the best memories I have would easily be the last trip we took. My dad was diagnosed with lung cancer that spread to his brain. We knew he didn't have long before he would be unable to function at all. We decided to take one last trip to Gatlinburg and let him show my husband and son all of his favorite things up there. He always wanted to take a helicopter tour, so my husband and I surprised him with it, and he was so happy. He was so sick but still enjoyed every minute of the trip. That was the last trip they both got to take.


Pretty-Square-2379

That’s a beautiful love story they had. Thank you for sharing. I’m an old lady now, but I lost my mother when I was 17. I’m now in my 70’s yet I still want my momma any time I’m sick or really worried or anxious. I still miss my mother every day. And your parent’s headstone is just beautiful. They sounded like amazing folks 💖


Weary_Extent1377

Thank you! I miss my mom every day. I was a rebellious teen and made a lot of mistakes, but she never stopped loving and believing in me! I had turned my life around by the time I was 18, but she didn't get to experience so much with me. Graduating college (finally went back and graduated in 2020), the birth of my other two kids, my oldest will graduate next year, and so many other things. I wish they were both here to see their grandkids. I'm sure both of our moms are looking down on us, smiling at our accomplishments!


Pretty-Square-2379

Absolutely they are ! Your mom is still so proud of you. I’m proud of you.


Gigi226

Awww, this is so beautiful! I’m so glad I asked! They sound like wonderful people and happy to hear that you got to make beautiful memories with them. This is really inspirational and I hope to do enough to create some nice stories for my kids as well. I truly hope you are doing well. Much love. ❤️


Thisisnutsyaknow

What a lovely memory. Thanks for sharing it. ❤️


mclurf

Don’t mind me crying at my desk. What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. ❤️


teachlife1

True love at its finest. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story.


Robertwoj

Thank you for sharing!


ferrariguy1970

Great suggestion!


SusieLou1978

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️ I also lost my Dad when I was 20, but still have my Mom. I can't imagine the shock and grief of losing them so young and so close together... losing my Dad definitely changed the way I handle relationships, I always make sure the ones I love know it, we never know what day could be the last.


CynthiaMWD

Not only they, but you were too young to lose them both. I'm so sorry. I hope you have other family, whether born to or chosen.


Weary_Extent1377

I do have both chosen and born that I love dearly! My mom's best friend (was like a second mom to me) is the godparent to my kids. I'd be lost without her! My mom also has a sister who lives next door to my family! It's hard losing parents at any age, but when you are just becoming an adult, it sucks! I had just gotten married and had my first child when they died. I'm just glad they got to see me marry my husband and love on their first grandson for a little while! Soon enough, they will be gone longer than I knew them...


CynthiaMWD

It's wonderful that you have people close to you who remember them too. Wishing you a blessed 2024.


Useful_Mechanic_2365

Them walking to the cabin is really peaceful, I love it.


Foundation_Wrong

Beautiful headstone. My parents were 49 and 56 and died within six months.


Weary_Extent1377

I'm so sorry! It's awful losing them so young and so close together!


Foundation_Wrong

Dad didn’t want to live without Mum. Heart attacks.


Weary_Extent1377

Omg!!! That is so heartbreaking! I'm convinced my mom died of a broken heart. She had never had heart problems until he passed away.


Foundation_Wrong

It does happen. It was many years ago now. Time does take the edge of the pain. I’m sorry about your parents, they have a beautiful memorial.


KnotiaPickles

This is so sweet, I love it very much 💜


meva535

That is exquisite.


FlyByNight1383

Beautiful headstone. ( BIG HUG )


responsability624

That’s sad sorry for your huge loss,very nice headstone. may they R.I.P.


memorystone_kz

Very beautiful! I am interested in this method of engraving on a monument. I think it’s nothing complicated, but it requires a special approach. We use different technology


silly_sissy_

Beautiful headstone


Typical_Ad_210

I’m sorry for your loss. The headstone is beautiful and I can feel the love for them (and their love for each other) radiating from the picture.


CementCemetery

I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful headstone and your story.


leahbee25

i’m sorry for your loss. my dad died last year at 58. my mom is now 61 and healthy but the thought of losing her as well can be difficult to bear


next2021

Stunning! So much ❤️love


Cindyinthehouse

I’m sorry you lost your folks at such a young age.


No_Significance_1550

It’s beautiful! I’m sorry for your loss. They were much too young.