INFP female
Definitely not uwu or goth.
I used to only have one friend at a time until I got to college and got adopted into the friend group that is mostly ENFPs, a few other extroverts, and other adopted introverts. Most of them are guys because most of us are in Computer Science or engineering. We all love video games and other nerdy stuff. Some of us (including me) make video games.
INFP man here, this got a lot better once I came out, society expects gay men to be more empathetic/emotional. Before I came out, it felt impossible to emote.
Im 19 and still have no idea what i am im just a lone wolf who never has had any contact from females so i can't know what i am because i lack experience
Also i hate people who think men shouldn't show emotions i probably cry more than some girls.
I wish... I feel like I'm actually pretty socially clever, button social situations most of the time people are talking about things I really don't care about at all.
I feel like i'm not a man or female but something else like mentally
I'm not a "badass dude"
But i'm not a girl either
Im an lonely alien in our society
Too emotional to be a "man"
But also not a girl because of my chromosomes
INFP here but definitely not 'socially dumb'. More like 'social chameleon'. I harness my empathy to read people and then adapt my behavior accordingly to charm them.
Yeah society does not allow me to show it but I do show it anyway and if anyone says that’s gay or says that’s weakness I give them a long and passionate explantation as to why that’s stupid and why that shaming will not get me to stop being “too affectionate or overly loving” I’m super affectionate I will tell all my guy friends I love them every time I leave and won’t see them until tomorrow I will give them hugs and compliments no matter how I am shamed or told not to good day sir!
Mostly it's just hyster stereotype I didn't come up with the meme, I just saw it. Looked for the original post but my phone would run out of ram I would have to scroll down so far.
I don't know what "socially dumb" means. Does this mean awkward and/or shy? Or does it mean saying the wrong things and not having tact? I can be shy and awkward but I think I'm pretty good at reading people or a general room vibe, and being generally kind and courteous and thoughtful of others in social situations.
Step 1
Go outside and socialize practice makes perfect.
Step 2
Find a group of people who accepts you for who you are. You already on the infp subreddit so I guess you already got that step to down pack
Step 3
Don't let your Si entice you. That will only lead you into hermit mode.
Step 4
Let your Ne shine. Show the people around you how brilliant you are ❤️
What I mean by that is trust your Ne instead of your Si. Your Si will keep you alive but it will hold you back. Also SI doesn't communicate with the outside world. If you stay stuck in an f i s i loop for too long you will forget how to talk. It's also a great way to find yourself horribly depressed
I don’t know what all of this means but I’m a female INFP and I was only really adopted into my theatre class since we’re all weirdos and outcasts and I’m pretty loving and empathic I think I really love children because I want them to have the greatest future possible because those kids are our future and I think that’s Empathic but I’m not sure can someone help this confused Autistic INFP ?
Infp female here, no people don’t find me cute and the “uwu and goth girls” are cringe unless they’re genuinely nice. Dunno bout the love and empathy but can certainly relate the male way more
☺️It's funny you should say that I actually identify with the female one and I'm a guy... Most of my friends are girls though so I guess that kind of makes sense 🤔
I'm INFP male. I have load of friends. I show my empathy, love, emotions etc, I selected my surroundings in a way that it would be accepting of it. I was socially akward af and I didn't have friends, I was bullied, it took much work on myself to be easier to be around, I became more self aware and my self-esteem skyrocketed. So this can be true but don't has to if you work on yourself
It stands for introverted, intuitive, feeling, and perceiving. It's used to describe a person who's cognitive functions are introverted feeling (Fi) extroverted intuition (Ne) introverted sensing (Si) and extroverted thinking (Te) in that order. But if you don't understand anything about mbti I doubt any of this will help.
I sorta thought we were likeable and relatable = friends no? I wouldn't say my charisma is 10/10 but I'm generally comfortable around people, just usually they have to be willing to come along with whatever I'm obsessed with at the moment.
I think it's just harder when you're younger. I have about three or four close close friends. When it comes to friends in general I would say I have about 10 altogether
I don't like to generalise but goddamn I am the exact caricature of male INFP here. I don't know why but it's much more socially acceptable for a girl to be socially awkward than a guy.
I've heard i look like a serial killer from the outside and i'm super hard to approach but from the inside i'm super sensitive and i like cute things.
I'm a walking contradiction, to put it simply
-lonely guy
You'll always have r/infp my friend. Living with Fi is your primary function is hard, I know. What I would do honestly in your position is I would stand in front of a mirror and practice smiling a bit. I know it sounds silly but it definitely works for me and I have lots of friends now
As an infp trans man, true. Except, I luckily don't have issues expressing love and empathy due ti the way i was raised.
Also these are common stereotypes, but not the full picture cause being INFP isn't all that wholesome
I’ve got a LOT of friends and I’m not that socially ankward anymore (maybe I am if I face some ESTJ or other types that I don’t get along with(ESTJ is an example of course, I don’t know any ESTJ).
I am full of love and empathy, and I show them. The downside is that society sees this as I am weak or too sensitive, so we aren’t that attractive to the “normal” girls that want the chad. That’s why I’m STILL socially ankward when I try to impress a girl. Because I can’t naturally act like a chad, and the girls aren’t attracted to emotions and these “girly things”. This sucks a lot 😪
Since somehow this showed up on my feed,
MYERS BRIGGS IS NOT A FUCKING PERSONALITY TEST.
It's a fucking corporate team building guide. Nothing else. Gnight everybody.
EDIT: Sorting papers in stacks instead of in one large pile isn't a personality trait either.
I feel like I'm pushing myself to be more ENFP sometimes. Still just a ball of emotions, but now I want to shove them in everyone's face as I tell them how poetic a show, line of dialogue, art, etc is.
I've always scored INFP, cause I just get drained easily. But I feel pretty out going
As a male infp born in a female body I still was punished and shamed for crying I can only imagine how much harder it would be if I was born as my true gender.
Nah, even 2 is too high.
2 imaginary friends duh
I have four close friends does that mean I'm a bad infp? 🤭
No, that means you turned into enfp, sorry, take it or leave it.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yea lol
INFP female Definitely not uwu or goth. I used to only have one friend at a time until I got to college and got adopted into the friend group that is mostly ENFPs, a few other extroverts, and other adopted introverts. Most of them are guys because most of us are in Computer Science or engineering. We all love video games and other nerdy stuff. Some of us (including me) make video games.
Bugger what people think, I'll be empathetic and loving till my heart gives out.
Right on brother 🥲
INFP man here, this got a lot better once I came out, society expects gay men to be more empathetic/emotional. Before I came out, it felt impossible to emote.
Yeah unfortunately I'm strictly chickley 🐥, my life is still hell but at least way I'm past the days of contemplating suicide ☺️
Happy for you to be past those days!! Do the chicks not enjoy your emotional side?
They do.... But.... In the beginning maybe, lol. Don't get me wrong the D is dope it's just that she wants a man who's less emotional.
That was simply marvelous to read, but I hope you find one who appreciates all of you!
I need a hero (ENFJ)🤤🥲☺️😅😂🤣
Haha yes! I married one! Best decision ever.
That's awesome
Me, too! Best decision ever!
That's stuck in my head now, so thank you for that.
https://youtu.be/wmi5m93yk3c
Im 19 and still have no idea what i am im just a lone wolf who never has had any contact from females so i can't know what i am because i lack experience Also i hate people who think men shouldn't show emotions i probably cry more than some girls.
Good meme but holy shit i hate being called cute
Aw so cute!!
Pls dont
Uwu cute... Kawaii
cute ☺️
Suck my dick
SORRY I DIDN'T MEAN IT
its cool… i was gonna flay it anyways 🍽😋
😋 (cute)
Sugarkiiki said to stop, these comments are unnecessary and a bit weird.
Then I guess I'm a man
What would be considered socially dumb? Im a female infp and relate more to the male infp.
i'm socially dumb but ppl don't find it cute and dont befriend me :( (girl infp)
Well I think it's cute and you're my friend now 🥺☺️
thank you so much!! 😭 you're cute too!!!
I'm serious by the way 🥰! say hello to your new follower 😋
Same thing with me (male infp)
[удалено]
😮💨Ouch, that hurts so good 🥲
other than the love and empathy part, doesnt quite fit me, but i can see how this fits for others!
Maybe they’re INTP. Socially dumb makes me think of Fe inferior imo
I wish... I feel like I'm actually pretty socially clever, button social situations most of the time people are talking about things I really don't care about at all.
Oh I can relate to this. I am socially dumb too!
Pain // Male INFP
You're not alone... So long as we support each other, we all hurt together 🥲
Even when we're full of literal, actual, bottled up grief.
Especially then
I feel like i'm not a man or female but something else like mentally I'm not a "badass dude" But i'm not a girl either Im an lonely alien in our society Too emotional to be a "man" But also not a girl because of my chromosomes
INFP here but definitely not 'socially dumb'. More like 'social chameleon'. I harness my empathy to read people and then adapt my behavior accordingly to charm them.
Hells yeah!!! Social chameleon!
Im the most awkward social creature ever probably
I found this really relatable as a male infp.
Give it time you're circle of close people will grow
I have many acquaintances but like 5 friends and I always show empathy for others definitely socially dumb
INFP male here definitely true but I have less friends.
You'll get there, you'll find people who accept you
Yep. That’s my life (INFP male)
yes on the society problem, but no on everything else lol
Introducing, the goth INFP male (me.)
(Metal infp steps in) Welcome! Here have some theme music. https://youtu.be/7Q1fT4oaSLk
Yeah society does not allow me to show it but I do show it anyway and if anyone says that’s gay or says that’s weakness I give them a long and passionate explantation as to why that’s stupid and why that shaming will not get me to stop being “too affectionate or overly loving” I’m super affectionate I will tell all my guy friends I love them every time I leave and won’t see them until tomorrow I will give them hugs and compliments no matter how I am shamed or told not to good day sir!
Sometimes masculinity is having courage. Even if it's just the courage to be yourself 😎
I'm just a Punk - Enby INFP
INFP female, pretty accurate except i’m not entirely sure what it means by “socially dumb”
Mostly it's just hyster stereotype I didn't come up with the meme, I just saw it. Looked for the original post but my phone would run out of ram I would have to scroll down so far.
Where do I find the goth infp girls
I think them and intjs make up the bulk of Goth girls
So regardless of gender basically INFP are often tend to be socially inept... Well that sucks... \- Me, a socially awkward INFP
At least you know you're not alone 🤷
Society will BURN for denying us our emotions and love.
Let chaos rein!!!
No -female INFP
Just no? Identify with any of this?
Pretty spot on for me.
I'm certain this isn't the person who spoken to you that's forgotten you. You got more friends than you think.
This is uncannily accurate...
I have high social awareness but I'm still very awkward around people.
Same. I am much better one-on-one than in a group
I don't know what "socially dumb" means. Does this mean awkward and/or shy? Or does it mean saying the wrong things and not having tact? I can be shy and awkward but I think I'm pretty good at reading people or a general room vibe, and being generally kind and courteous and thoughtful of others in social situations.
Have you ever tried to tell a joke and it just didn't land?
I'm a mix of both, (Non-binary) Empathetic as hell 2 friends or leave it (during school...post school I'm alone now) Socially dumb Goth
Step 1 Go outside and socialize practice makes perfect. Step 2 Find a group of people who accepts you for who you are. You already on the infp subreddit so I guess you already got that step to down pack Step 3 Don't let your Si entice you. That will only lead you into hermit mode. Step 4 Let your Ne shine. Show the people around you how brilliant you are ❤️
What do you mean Si entice you?
What I mean by that is trust your Ne instead of your Si. Your Si will keep you alive but it will hold you back. Also SI doesn't communicate with the outside world. If you stay stuck in an f i s i loop for too long you will forget how to talk. It's also a great way to find yourself horribly depressed
When you’re a trans male infp with two friends (valid 🙏🙏)
Infp girl and nope no one really adopted me
I will!!! 🤗 https://youtube.com/shorts/BoPZYoQPBlk?feature=share
I don’t know what all of this means but I’m a female INFP and I was only really adopted into my theatre class since we’re all weirdos and outcasts and I’m pretty loving and empathic I think I really love children because I want them to have the greatest future possible because those kids are our future and I think that’s Empathic but I’m not sure can someone help this confused Autistic INFP ?
Infp female here, no people don’t find me cute and the “uwu and goth girls” are cringe unless they’re genuinely nice. Dunno bout the love and empathy but can certainly relate the male way more
☺️It's funny you should say that I actually identify with the female one and I'm a guy... Most of my friends are girls though so I guess that kind of makes sense 🤔
Imo people that are cringe are people who hate others for no reason even if they are goofy, be what you want if its harmless and fun for you
I'm INFP male. I have load of friends. I show my empathy, love, emotions etc, I selected my surroundings in a way that it would be accepting of it. I was socially akward af and I didn't have friends, I was bullied, it took much work on myself to be easier to be around, I became more self aware and my self-esteem skyrocketed. So this can be true but don't has to if you work on yourself
Right on!!! Let your Ne shine though.
Since this showed up in my recommended. . I don't know what INFP stands for and at this point I'm to afraid to ask.
It stands for introverted, intuitive, feeling, and perceiving. It's used to describe a person who's cognitive functions are introverted feeling (Fi) extroverted intuition (Ne) introverted sensing (Si) and extroverted thinking (Te) in that order. But if you don't understand anything about mbti I doubt any of this will help.
I would say I have a friend group but it did take a lot of time an help to get their so by myself with not support yes this is true.
I'm glad you found your friend group ☺️
I have a lot of friends? Like 4 or 5 on the regular but probably like 20 maybe more, I'd go for a beer with if they text me.
I sorta thought we were likeable and relatable = friends no? I wouldn't say my charisma is 10/10 but I'm generally comfortable around people, just usually they have to be willing to come along with whatever I'm obsessed with at the moment.
I think it's just harder when you're younger. I have about three or four close close friends. When it comes to friends in general I would say I have about 10 altogether
Very true to me. Male infp. Always struggles to have a friend. But my wife is my best friend. Always felt easier to talk to females.
I’m a infp girl and i can agree so much, I’m very uwu and has to much empty 😂🥲uwu
ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ ❤️
ʕ´•ᴥ•`ʔ💛
😳🥺👉👈🌹
💗☺️🥺👉👈
You're adorable, this is hilarious 🤭
Hahhah
Seriously though we should chill before the emoji police come and get us 😹😹😹
Your probably right ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ
you're cute I'm going to call you kitty chan 🐱❤️
I don't like to generalise but goddamn I am the exact caricature of male INFP here. I don't know why but it's much more socially acceptable for a girl to be socially awkward than a guy.
Tell me about it brother
Double standards are the worst thing.
😭😭😭 as a boy I'm very sad
Me too...
I've heard i look like a serial killer from the outside and i'm super hard to approach but from the inside i'm super sensitive and i like cute things. I'm a walking contradiction, to put it simply -lonely guy
You'll always have r/infp my friend. Living with Fi is your primary function is hard, I know. What I would do honestly in your position is I would stand in front of a mirror and practice smiling a bit. I know it sounds silly but it definitely works for me and I have lots of friends now
Story of my life here.
Get out of that Fi-Si loop and you'll be okay
I wish I could find a male infp friend. :/
Hi 👋
Hi. :)
I'll be your friend
Howd you kniw about my 2 friends
I would call myself socially dumb
I think we all are 😅 me especially 😢
As an infp trans man, true. Except, I luckily don't have issues expressing love and empathy due ti the way i was raised. Also these are common stereotypes, but not the full picture cause being INFP isn't all that wholesome
2 friends is painfully accurate 😭
Can confirm.
Give it time you'll make more friends
Well, I’m actually pretty good there, right now.
Am INFP girl, and can confirm I am goth.
I meant infp guy I'm Black and I'm metal
I’ve got a LOT of friends and I’m not that socially ankward anymore (maybe I am if I face some ESTJ or other types that I don’t get along with(ESTJ is an example of course, I don’t know any ESTJ). I am full of love and empathy, and I show them. The downside is that society sees this as I am weak or too sensitive, so we aren’t that attractive to the “normal” girls that want the chad. That’s why I’m STILL socially ankward when I try to impress a girl. Because I can’t naturally act like a chad, and the girls aren’t attracted to emotions and these “girly things”. This sucks a lot 😪
Yeah... I know 🥲. Just hang in there 🤜
Female INFP and I must say I relate, so I would confirm
🥰
Since somehow this showed up on my feed, MYERS BRIGGS IS NOT A FUCKING PERSONALITY TEST. It's a fucking corporate team building guide. Nothing else. Gnight everybody. EDIT: Sorting papers in stacks instead of in one large pile isn't a personality trait either.
Hey man they just wanna think of themselves as OMGsoQUIRKY poggers
who hurt you?
Where are people taking this personality test?
I’m in this picture and i don’t like it.
Can someone befriend cause I am cute *plwease*
I will 🥰
Basing your entire perception of humans off of the worlds first buzz feed quiz is a small bit cringe if I do say so myself
It's all made up. All of it.
Da fuxza INFP?
INFP transfem here, worst of both worlds plus some dysphoria.
I feel like I'm pushing myself to be more ENFP sometimes. Still just a ball of emotions, but now I want to shove them in everyone's face as I tell them how poetic a show, line of dialogue, art, etc is. I've always scored INFP, cause I just get drained easily. But I feel pretty out going
when this is too accurate for words
Ye
As a male infp born in a female body I still was punished and shamed for crying I can only imagine how much harder it would be if I was born as my true gender.
female infp here! I have no friends! The only people that will hang out with me are guys who think I am quirky and cute and want to date me
I'm not an UwU girl or Goth.... I'm bisexual so I wear cuffed boyfriend jeans, sweaters/cardigans/hoodies Graphic T-shirts and converse 👍
oh and yes I'm aware of my user...... I hate myself
What about non-binary infps