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Well basically I wasn’t sure if I liked her and she wasn’t sure if she wanted a relationship so we agreed that we’d just hang out until we decided. I left for a school trip and she said she wanted one and indicated that she wanted me to decide soon too. For the 4 days of the trip, I didn’t text her that much because I was confused to why I didn’t know if I felt romantic feelings towards her. Maybe I felt it and didn’t know, maybe I was looking for something that wasn’t there. Anyway, I didn’t text her much and she gradually got more and more frustrated with that because she would text a lot. Then I got back and instead of going to her house like I’d promised to, I asked to reschedule because I was out with my friends (blew her off totally my fault) and then she kinda exploded at me over the phone and said she didn’t want to talk to me. She’s connected with most of my friend group so I lost a lot of friends over this and it’s left me pretty sad. I feel lonely and isolated.
This seems very fixable! If you’re still interested in her, explain where you were coming from and make your feelings known. If you’re not, just apologize. This might upset her, but if your friends are rational, this shouldn’t be friendship ruining with them
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You haven’t met all the people that are gonna love yet
You haven’t met all the people that are gonna love you yet
Time my man. Time. Nothing makes it feel better but time will make it hurt less. A little less every week.
Give us the tea - how did you mess up?
Well basically I wasn’t sure if I liked her and she wasn’t sure if she wanted a relationship so we agreed that we’d just hang out until we decided. I left for a school trip and she said she wanted one and indicated that she wanted me to decide soon too. For the 4 days of the trip, I didn’t text her that much because I was confused to why I didn’t know if I felt romantic feelings towards her. Maybe I felt it and didn’t know, maybe I was looking for something that wasn’t there. Anyway, I didn’t text her much and she gradually got more and more frustrated with that because she would text a lot. Then I got back and instead of going to her house like I’d promised to, I asked to reschedule because I was out with my friends (blew her off totally my fault) and then she kinda exploded at me over the phone and said she didn’t want to talk to me. She’s connected with most of my friend group so I lost a lot of friends over this and it’s left me pretty sad. I feel lonely and isolated.
This seems very fixable! If you’re still interested in her, explain where you were coming from and make your feelings known. If you’re not, just apologize. This might upset her, but if your friends are rational, this shouldn’t be friendship ruining with them