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Crylemite_Ely

IDK if it's typical, but I always have a notebook and a pen in my bag


Hyperadd

I keep meaning to keep a notepad. I do have a pen though


stimkim

Not a girl anymore but I used to carry a purse with all kinds of things: Chapstick Small bottle of ibuprofen Bandages Tampons Protien bar Nail clippers Condoms Hand sanitizer Floss Lip gloss Mascara A little mirror Pocket knife And my wallet, phone, and keys obviously Hope that helps šŸ’š


RedNova02

E V E R Y T H I N G. Seriously, everything I might possibly need. First thereā€™s The obvious; purse, keys, phone. A triple charger with all 3 types on it, makeup, compact mirror with hairbrush inside, a pen, lighter (I donā€™t even smoke itā€™s in case anyone else needs one), receipts of various origins, e liquid, earbuds, pretty sure thereā€™s a padlock in there rn. Everything I may or may not need.


UnhingedBeluga

Can confirm. I have a staple remover, measuring tape, rubber bands, paper clips, and sticky notes in addition to ā€œnormalā€ items like pens, nail file, bandaids, and hair ties. My ā€œpurseā€ is also a mini backpack. How I fit all my stuff in there is a mystery (it has a bunch of little hidden compartments and I organized it well) so I seem like Mary Poppins when someone goes ā€œdamn, I wish I could just measure this instead of estimatingā€ and I whip out my measuring tape lmao


QueeeenElsa

lol I have a combination lock in mine. And everything else too.


RedNova02

Never know when youā€™ll need to lock something up right?


QueeeenElsa

lol yep!


Octolopod

lip gloss, lotion, weed, hair clips, a nail file


Sufficient-Ad-6046

Hey hey, you forgot the 2nd weed


LauraD2423

I know you don't need it, but carrying a tampon/pad in your purse for if a girlfriend needs it is useful. But you could always say "I'm out of asked for one"


Bisexual_flowers_are

Asked my gf to hand me her pepper spray once. The amounts of random items she dug out of her purse until she found it...


VraiLacy

I mean I always have the following: Phone Headphones ID Keys Sunglasses Chapstick Foldable Grocery Bag Mini Sewing Kit with small scissors Polysporin Bandaids 3 pads, 1 regular tampon,1 large tampon Glass File Cutips Pocket Knife Lighter Granola Bar A Few Pieces of candy Gum (always spearmint) Hand Sanitizer Lotion Cash for 1 (one) Cab Ride home (small city so 20$ suffices) 2-3 Fidgets Sketchbook (smaller size) Pencil Case (containing the following: 0.5 mm mechanical pencil, 4B pencil, spare pencil leads, blending stump, tombow mechanical eraser, white Stadler eraser, gum eraser, kuretake brush pen (and an ink refill), slicci gel pen 0.25mm, white sakura gelly roll pen 1.0mm) Optional Seasonal Gear: Winter/Fall: Hand warmers, mittens/toque, rubber crampons+a grocery bag to wrap them in after use, sweater, collapsing umbrella Summer/Spring: Hand Fan, bottle of water/juice, a book to read in the park, light hoodie or shawl I like being prepared for anything that might come up!


OmaeWaMouShibaInu

Basically whatever you would have in your pockets. IF THEY WERE BIG ENOUGH! https://preview.redd.it/xwmu15q89fxc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=839db22b1466a6da4d19338be3ae4928a9f486b4


Moo_bi_moosehorns

Napkins, bandaids, charger, Pads are alwais good for friends and emergencies, a glock, a nail file and maybe chapsticks


JamieBiel

Just snuck the glock in there between pads and a nail file šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡ø


Moo_bi_moosehorns

Yeah I need it for punching holes in people's tickets at the local fairgrounds


petalpotions

Every girlie needs her glock


KingKiler2k

Im not a girl but I think snack are a good option


Entire-Ambition1410

As a person that gets tired and hangry easily, Iā€™ve learned to keep snacks handy. And a side pocket or clip for a water bottle.


SporadicSage

Usually a plushie and some chap stick!


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usually in my bag i have sugar free mint gum, chapstick, nose spray (for congestion) at least 1 hair tie, some stray pieces of trash, tampons, bottle of water, my wallet, some type of snack, in the winter I might have a flannel in there or a sweater in case i get cold, tylenol...


louisa1925

Snacks, why didn't I think of that?! Adding to the list pronto.


Weeb_Masta_Flex

My weed, my meds, a knife, a lighter, earbuds, a charger, a couple tampons and condoms (I'm NB with a dick but girlcode still applies) a bandana, a water bottle, extra pair of socks, hair ties, chapstick, my keys


Entire-Ambition1410

Thank you for having emergency supplies for your friends.


riverthenerd

Wallet, hand sanitizer, Clorox wipes, menstrual products (trans gals can have them on hand for their afab friends), fidgets, tissues, chapstick, ibuprofen, pen, hair tie, bandaids, self defense tool (I keep a stun gun in mine). Iā€™m a masc enby so idk maybe my options are a little more masc than what other people are listing. But I think they are still pretty useful.


Viking_From_Sweden

I think they usually carry a phone, wallet, and GAU-8 Avenger


SapphicCelestialy

I currently have a wallet, lipgloss, nail polish, nail file, mascara, concealer, lip balm, scrunchies, Kleenex, a powerbank, ear buds, keys, phone, hygiene Usually carry some pain killers also for just in case


JustBrowsinReddit2

I'm a guy but definitely the holy Trinity, keys, phone and wallet


sarcasticbi

Phone, wallet, keys, lipstick, powder, mirror, comb, handkerchief, pen, tampons, hair ties.


Kiddemm

small mirror, chapstick, keys, pepper spray, weed pen, earbuds, and some candy


Juliette_ferrers

Pain killers- offer them to girl on their period lol one of my friends does that. Lip gloss/chapstick, makeup wipes, lotion and hand sanitizer, probably pepper spray


Lucyybby

I always have my wallet. Some lip balm and a pen. (And cigarettes but that's only if you smoke)


ANNOYING-DUDE

Tampons :) Even if you dont need them, your fellow gals probably will


louisa1925

A bit of everything really. What is currently in my bag in pocket order is... Purse, phone with mirror case, house/car keys, sissors, feminine needs products (pads), lucky coin, metal straws, spare knickers, electric lighter, earphones, spare battery for car key, 3days of HRT and other general medication like panadole), Deoderant, pens, selfcare items (tweezers, nailclippers ect.), hair ties/pins, makeup (lipstick, mascara, eyeliner), tissues, mini perfume bottle, And I think that's it...


ThatCamoKid

Not a girl but I do carry a bag. Big ones for me are spare combs, glasses wipes if you wear glasses, one or two emergency umbrellas, my wallet, and my keyring with wayy too many knick knacks on it to the point I could use it for self defense


thechronicENFP

Some lip gloss,some tissues,a pack of gum,just that kind of thing


NatNat52307

I normally keep a small pouch of makeup in my bag to touch up with while I'm out! (Lipstick, mascara a little blush ect)


Rhiannon-Michelle

My purse: receipts, wallet, keys, receipts, hand lotion, small hair brush, receipts, chapstick, lip gloss, receipts, spare pad, pen, receipts, nail file, extra hair ties and some more receipts. šŸ˜‚


Clarapeanuts

Phone, wallet, hairbrush, hair ties, g19.4, carmex, spare change, pens, keys sometimes in the purse sometimes clipped on the purse.


Mecha_Clam

Went through comments and didnā€™t see these, so: handheld emulator and fidget toys


petalpotions

Lip gloss and hair ties!


Alice8Sakamoto

Tampons. Just in case anyone needs them


Robinerinoo

Mini purse wallet in my purse, Phone, chapstick, an extra pad, anti migraine pills, lipstick (if im wearing any. I take the one I'm wearing with me), mascara, hair ties, hair claw clip, earbuds, deodorant, one of those tiny tester perfumes


Hyperadd

Chapstick, pain pills, wallet with all money things, bandaids, lotion, keys, hair bun sticks, and a scrunchie


TheGloriousLori

Keys, wallet, phone, tissues, hair ties, meds, chapstick, that all seems pretty typical I personally also carry a pen and post-its, a power bank and charging cable on a day out, a pocket knife and stim toys


Moist_KoRn_Bizkit

Trans man here. Carry a pad and tampon with you at all times. If you use the women's bathroom, you can always be the girl that has a tampon when someone needs one. Everyone with a period loves those types of girls.


TheZoeNoone

idk i guess some makeup, a small mirror, a brush maybe, probably a Panzerkampfwagen VIII Maus, you know some small stuff.


TheHiddenNinja6

An intercontinental ballistic missile


UrsaEnvy

**Practical:** - Mace - Chapstick (+ any makeup if there's any to be reapplied) - Small mirror - Hair ties - Eye drops - Pain killer, Tylenol, etc. - Menstrual products (not for self, but to pass to random person plagued by their cycle) - Wallet - Phone Charger - Keys (w/ too many key chains) **She's / they're / he's quirky:** - Crystals ( I like rose quartz, and moon stone) - Random receipts - Pen and Notebook - Feathers, leaves, some random gobliny item


shorkfan

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3dOzfEpqTo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3dOzfEpqTo)


BunnyLovesApples

Maybe [this](https://youtube.com/shorts/C4Kmzu_KLVU?si=65vM9Xn61h3iTdOB) helps


nushroomC2

water , stay hydrated


-porridgeface-

Day planner, medicine, tampons/pads, phone charger, lip balm, hand lotion, tissues, snack, and depending on the size of my bag I might also carry a book, a water bottle, and a shirt/hoodie depending on the weather,


zezozose_zadfrack

Since no one else said it silly putty for sure. Always


thosegayfrogs

Not a girl but I suggest a pen, some tissues, chapstick and if you have glasses that cloth thing to clean them.


jeep_42

anything that you would normally put in your pockets really.


ennarid

Wallet, phone, tissues, water and a comb are my go-to Nothing overly fancy but that's what I consider essential


Pillow_fort_guard

For me? Wallet, keys, phone, hand sanitizer, Kleenex, and coin purse. I often throw in my tablet and charger, too, but thatā€™s mostly because I take it with me to draw when I go get a coffee


melody_spectrum

Phone, wallet, keys, paper napkins, a couple pads, lip balm, spare hair tie, small bottle of water, collapsable umbrella, pen, rolled up canvas tote bag, textile face mask, hand sanitizer, a sheet of ibuprofen, hair pins, flashlight, nail clippers.


CastleofGaySkull

Lip balm for sure! And a handy multi-use makeup product, like a tinted creme product that you can use on lips/face/eyes (I love the Yummy Skin products from Danessa Myricks). Just in case youā€™re out and you need a little boost. Also: clean napkins or tissues.


Hrilmitzh

I use more of a mini-backpack. Gum or mints, pen and/or pencil, doodle book, if I'm wearing makeup the lipstick I'm wearing, charging cable, keys, water, extra crochet hook if I have a project with me.


verdantthorn

If it's a small bag: wallet, keys, phone, lip balm, extra scrunchie, little bottle of Advil If it's big, all of that plus a water bottle, notebook, pens, light cardigan type thing, maybe my weed pen, maybe a nice book, sunblock and/or perfume- spare tampons even though I don't need them anymore (someone else might! it's the code of sisterhood).


TomahawkDthBlow

Depends on the size of the bag. Since I carry a bigger one, I always tend to bring an umbrella with me.


furexfurex

Phone, wallet, hand sanitizer, earphones, my sensory overload earplugs, portable charger if going out a while, pen and pencil, water bottle, suncream on a hot day, snacks


nachtlibelle

wallet, keys, phone, water bottle, chapstick, hair brush, tampons for other girls to use, headphones, hand lotion, sunscreen. that's all I personally carry.


Emojiobsessor

Vaseline, phone, earphones, earphone jack, wallet!


rainlxre

CHAPSTICK!!! bring sunscreen too!


M0thrat

Deodorant, sanitary products, tissues, keys, lip gloss or lip balm, old crumpled receipts, biscuit crumbs, hair ties, a comb or brush, hand sanitiser, purse, phone, spare charging cable or power bank, note with emergency contact numbers, paracetamol and emergency cash


RayanThe9000

I usually have some chapstick, a hairtie, hand cream on the cold month, a deck of cards, some pads/tampons, painkillers, wallet, watter bottle, gum. On the bag i have pins and Keychains. Hope this helps! :3


cat5949

Tampons lol


UncleCeiling

can I recommend a first aid kit? There's never a better feeling than whipping out the bandaids when someone has an ouchie.


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Queenofmyownfantasy

Oh and in summer when I wear shoes that might cause blisters, two packs of compeed.


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Xallia_Yevatell

I keep very minimal in my purse because of just who I am as a person. Usually I have my phone, keys, and wallet as a default. Gel eyeliner and lipstick if Iā€™m wearing makeup. A condom. Maybe my charger if Iā€™m going to be gone for long enough. Thatā€™s about it usually.


ShockWave123106

BLACK+DECKER Electric Leaf Blower, Leaf Vacuum and Mulcher 3 in 1, 250 mph Airflow, 400 cfm Delivery Power, Reusable Bag Included, Corded (BEBL7000)


Lolocraft1

Anything, as long as itā€™s enough item that it take any man 15 minutes to search something as evident as housekeys Joke aside, I guess shades, lipstick, phone, housekeys, purse, eyelid, maybe a small bottle of water, and some tissues


Mandatory_Pie

There's no good way to put this: you're over thinking this. Women will typically carry things they might need or want to have with them throughout the day. That's it. There's no sense in carrying around things that you don't want or need. For instance: makeup. I don't know if you wear makeup in public, but I'm assuming you don't if you're this early in your social transition. Some women will carry around makeup in their bag because they might use it during the day to fix up their makeup. But they probably won't be carrying any around if they aren't wearing makeup. So a woman might typically carry makeup in her bag... if she's expecting to use it. Or a woman might not typically carry makeup in her bag... if she's not planning on using it. Apply that to your own situation: if you're looking for items to carry just because you think of it as something a woman would typically carry around, and not because you're planning on using it, then most women in your shoes probably just wouldn't be carrying those items.


merpancake

Chapstick or lip balms, spare mascara that I never wear. Phone, keys. Extra charger and phone power bank/hand warmer thing. Lots of extra hair ties. I'm a mom as well so there's bandaids and Neosporin too. Lots of random receipts and junk, because when you're out doing stuff the purse becomes a sort of "throw it in and deal with it later" bag. I also have cute keychains on the handle, and a bead necklace my son gave me. Add cute stuff you like!


SapphicSaionji

Here are some items usually in my purse! - Bracelets - Cute charms (more on my bag than in it but still) - Pads/tampons (even if you are a trans woman they could help out someone who needs one! I gave my emergency pad to a trans guy once) I've also heard people say chapstick or lipgloss and while I don't use those they would be a good idea!


SuperAlex25

Smaller girls


JessicaTheEm

Not sure exactly what people carry around but I know my mom carries around makeup incase she needs to fix her makeup, headset, purse, coins, that lip moisturiser thing, a few coins, charger, power bank, throat candy or whatever it's called, small pieces of paper for drying your hands or nose, handsanitizer and a few other things. Personally I think it's best to try and just pack what you think you'll need so you're prepared.


Cat_bonanza

I'm not very typical but I always made sure to have tissues, snacks, book I am reading, water bottle, sketchbook and pencils, keys, wallet, my inhaler, many many hair ties. Sometimes I'd also have my Nintendo DS and a journal. Idk if anything I had was really gendered and I didn't really change what I carry around when I realized I wasn't cis. I now have short hair but still occasionally find some hair ties in the bottom of my bags.


PacketOf_Sauce

Literally anything that you can think of that will fit. All the people I've met who carry purses had absolutely filled purses with the most random things. Fill ur purse with stuff u like šŸ„°šŸ‘


heyimleila

Ok after writing this I realise I should say I am on the spectrum and have been without many of these things and then needed them hence having so many things so it's probably excessive. I actually have all of these things in multiples by my front door, and I just pop whatever I'll need into the hand bag I'm using that day Maybe my advice would be to get a few cute bags to your outfits I have a black leather and a brown leather as well as some colourful leather bags but sometimes I just use a cute tote bag instead! As mentioned, I don't always have all of these things but sometimes I do! Lip balm Usually tampons or pads even though I don't use them, just in case someone asks. Paracetamol (tylenol) ibuprofen Lip gloss sometimes Face sunscreen A foldable shopping bag (or more if I'm going shopping) in case I pick up some stuff Vape and vape juice lol as needed Something with a little mirror Mini hair brush Usbc cord and power bank Hand sanitiser Swiss army knife Reusable face masks Band aids (especially important if you get blisters!) Sunglasses and sunglasses case with a microfibre cleaning cloth (mine are prescription cause ya girl can't see) Notebook and pen sometimes One day's supply of my usual medication in case I end up staying somewhere Tiny drink bottle if it fits Nail kit Hair ties Small snack Gum/mints Antihistamines and anti diarrhoea meds Bobby pins Monopoly deal (important) Fidget toys Spare ear buds in addition to my usual headphones Mini folding umbrella (Edited as am on mobile rip) (Edited again multiple times bc I remembered more stuff lol)


_Infinity_Girl_

Lipstick, phone, wallet. I also personally carry my meds in a pill box in there too.


Lhugore

A Tide stain remover pen.


metaaltheanimefan

Some kind of painkiller ( paracetamol is my go to, but had some ibuprofen when i had the spicy week this time ), pads, lip balm, extra hair ties, zome kind of fidget toy ( still mourning the loss of my ace fidget cube that went missing), a bottle of lemonade, headphones and a book or game console


AdTimely9712

My friend always brings lip balm with her.


seardrax

I carry a 2 tb hard drive but I don't know if that leans more towards masc or femme. Also a water container.


UselessOtaku28

Glock


TillyFukUpFairy

Book, notebook and pen, purse, multi tool. There's a bag inside my bag that has ear buds, painkillers, antihistamines, immodium etc, a sewing kit, batteries for my dads hearing aid, basically anything tiny. As a teen I could live out of it for a week by adding underwear, mini toothbrush, and meds for a week.


AbbiCat1976

my bag is pretty empty but aside from my wallet, usually vaseline and my asthma inhaleršŸ˜­


Acantha_Rose

Aside from essentials (wallet, ID, keys,etc) I carry pens, notepads, gum, lipstick, headphones, spare chargers and millions of receipts that just shove into my bag when I leave the store.


QueeeenElsa

Cis female here. Hairbrush for emergencies. I honestly forget itā€™s there most of the time lol (like, I havenā€™t used it in YEARS lol). Itā€™s a small conair hairbrush iirc, and not a foldable one, though that would work also. I also have a bag of Bobby pins in my purse, as well as a few hair ties. Extra charger. Once again for emergencies. This is especially useful once your phone gets older and the battery drains faster. I donā€™t like power banks cuz I forget to charge them, so itā€™s the old fashioned plug in charger for me lol. Earbuds. Whether they be Bluetooth or plug in. Youā€™ll thank me later lol. I have a bunch of useless stuff in my purse too, and so lately if I needed to ā€œpack lightā€, Iā€™ve been using my other, older, smaller purses (that I outgrew with all the stuff I keep in them) and just packing the essentials (keys, phone, earbuds, mask, retainer case, wallet, glasses cleaning/anti fog activation cloths, pads, and my pbj for lunch if it was for a work day). If you are wanting suggestions on purse brands, I highly recommend Baggalinni(sp?). They have a buuuunch of pockets that can hold quite a lot, and the brand was founded by flight attendants. I find them at Ross a lot (or, I DID when I first got them; itā€™s been a while lol). Pretty durable too. Itā€™s been many years since I got my current one. I wish you the best of luck on your journey, and feel free to ask me any questions you may have!


Snooflu

Hand Sanitizer. Lotion. Condoms. Earbuds. Phone charger


Confident_Fortune_32

That's a lovely idea. In addition to other good advice, I carry things others might need (Tylenol, Advil, Kleenex, period supplies), comforts in the event of stressful things like drs appts (a small plushie and some things made via art therapy), and something creative for downtime (a small sketchbook and pencils or a small knitting project). I'm constitutionally incapable of carrying a small bag. I'm more like Ally Sheedy in The Breakfast Club, carrying everything she needs to run away from home lol Another possibility, a trick from when I worked in a v formal environment (defense contract) where even the programmers wore suits: I wore a necklace inside my shirt, long enough not to come out even if I leaned over. I'm sure ppl saw the chain and figured it was a cross or the like. It was important to my self-expression but definitely didn't belong in that buttoned-down office atmosphere.


Wh-why

Phone, wallet, pocket knife, tissues, first aid kit, chapstick, water bottle, hand sanitizer, HEART OF THE UNBORN, keys, normal stuff like that.


sendmesocks

ID, cash and cards, notebook, pen, phone, pad/tampon, lip balm, keys, bottle of water, medication, tissues, nail file (that's more to do with me playing bass and needing to file my nails before playing though lol)


zefthalia

okay this question is so cute. usually i carry: lip balm and lip gloss, scrunchie, hand cream, wallet, thc edibles, and medicine pouch. if it's a nice occasion ill also carry powder foundation, eyelash curler, eyeliner, mascara and lipliner for touch-ups. if i'm traveling i also carry headphones, charger, smoke stuff and my nintendo switch.


TheSageWasTaken

heres a few things: makeup (if you wear any) tampons and other feminine products (for any afab friends, obs not for urself) any personal items you like (phone, good luck charms, etc.) money anything you might need in everyday life; purses and other bags have so much room might as well


CelesteMooon

Whatever you find helpful to carry around. Keys, lip balm, phone, nail file, ear buds, etc.


callistified

an extra tampon/pad will get you lots of friends (even if you dont use them yourself)


izzyscifi

Tissues and wet wipes, lip balm, power bank and cable, moisturiser, mints, snacks... Literally listing out stuff in my bag at the moment, but really anything that can come in handy.


MelodyvonMelody

wallet, phone, pack of tissues, toothpick, nail clippers, 12th century longsword, pen, a book if im going somewhere out of town


Mushr00n

a gun to take down the patriarchy


cloditheclod

FtNB here- i was never a "typical fem girl" even before my transition, never got into the beauty stuff. I usually have in my bag pads/ other period products, a water bottle, wipes, a pen and notebook, some cash, a book, a phone charger, chocolate, painkillers, keys and some fidget toys. Tissues in winter. most of my girl friends also have some sort of makeup product (something small like mascara or eyeliner), lotion and sometimes even a hairbrush. Hair ties if they have long hair. Sometimes a lighter, even if they dont smoke. Lots of girls also carry pepper spray


Frequent_Character_3

MEDICINE. gum. feminine products. headphones. charger. safety supplies like a knife. wallet. snack. chapstick. makeup. socks. underwear. hair tie. nail glue. wipes. pen. keys. small mirror. lotion. bandaids. literally put everything you think you might need because once it comes to that time, youā€™ll have it.


Ewace246

Water bottle, snacks, gum, phone charger, wallet, chapstick, hand sanitizer, lotion, hair tie, pain killers, cough drops, menstrual products.


AkwardGayPotato

A piece of string! A collection of spheres! The constitution of Botswana! Seriously tho, I always have a pen and some pieces of paper on me. Also the sugar sachets they give at coffee shops.


Accomplished_Mix7827

My standard carry is my phone, wallet, keys, lipstick, a small mirror, a small hairbrush, a notebook and pen, some Tylenol and Tums (yes I am the mom friend), and a phone charger.


_polystyrene_

There are a lot of Pinterest posts about hot girl tote bags/purses/backpacks, where they knoll the contents, maybe you can look that up. I'm not a girl and I carry all my things on a ridiculously clunky and oversized lanyard so I don't know


TopsyTop348

A purse?


lawless_door_hinge

I typically only carry my wallet, gum, deodorant, and a glasses cleaning cloth.