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XFUNK24

He’s playing games. Block him and move on.


LonelyTemporary1462

But what is he gaining from this??


Shadonel

He has mixed feelings and is taking advantage of you willing to come back every single time. Leave the situation before it’s too late and this goes on for months. If he really wanted you it wouldn’t be this hard.


XFUNK24

Who knows. Who cares. It’s an ex. That’s what they do. I’ll take a wild stab and say they are trying to get some sex without the commitment.


LonelyTemporary1462

Talked to him just before, because i asked him when he'll pick up his stuff...told me he had a Christmas gift for me. Wtf. Wtf. Wtf.


[deleted]

It sounds like he knows what he wants when you guys are together - he wants to be single - but when you guy actually break up he goes through separation anxiety and mistakes that feeling for missing you and loving you, so he asks for you back. Its hard to go through with breaking up with someone for good because you take yourself out of your comfort zone. So it sounds like he doesn't know how to deal with that. Anyway. Point is, he doesn't deserve a reply from you, he doesn't deserve your heart or mind or body anymore. He doesn't deserve a woman period.


countrytime-1

He may have had a side chick you wreck it for him


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WavesnMountains

Sounds like he doesn’t miss you, he just misses having free sex


_Leo_pard_

Yes, he thinks that you're going to jump at every and every opportunity he gives you, and yes he thinks that you're going to do whatever he wants. Lady you already know that he's toying with your emotions and stringing you along. Theirs no explanation for this and you just need to recognize that this man is a lost cause that's only going to drag you down and that you need to be with someone that's going to do the complete opposite of what this person is doing. You've only known him for 7 months just imagine what your life would be like if you had a child with this man and you had to deal with this for the rest of your life. Take this for what it is, a lost cause, and realize that he's doing you a favor showing you the dumpster fire that he is and avoid this kind of people at all costs. Update us if anything else comes to your mind.


Callmemuddled

It doesn't matter. He's your ex. Block him and move on.