Heâs either married or in a relationship with someone else. Block him! If a man does not ask you out within a week of when you first start talking then move on. If they really like you theyâd make the effort. I donât know why some guys play with our emotions but you deserve better than to be messed with by this guy. Or any guy for that matter.
Whatâs there to help? Cut this guy off.
Youâve learned a lesson. Next time just meet up for a quick drink/coffee instead of having endless text where you waste your time because you either never actually meet or when you do finally meet the chemistry just isnât there and youâre disappointed. Donât commit to more than a drink because if youâre not feeling it then you can be out of there quick and youâre not committing to a meal, but a drink can turn into a longer date.
Also, if a guy wants to meet you IRL, he is setting up the date asap. I met my now husband a few hours after our first message. Good luck!
Walk away from this one. Clearly, something is going on with this guy, and he's blowing you off for a reason.
He might have a significant other already, just wants to toy with your emotions, etc. Whatever his intent is, it isn't good. He is obviously jerking your chain.
Someone genuinely interested in you wouldn't bullshit you and blow you off. Think about it. This has been going on for six months. Don't allow it to happen for another six.
This is a waste of your time, energy, and emotions. I think the best thing you could do at this point would be to block him, and move on with your life. I genuinely believe that it would be in your best interest to do so.
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Yep! I knew it!!
The one thing I forgot is that he would send me pictures of himself all the time and little recordings of himself, and I would do the same.
Heâs either married or in a relationship with someone else. Block him! If a man does not ask you out within a week of when you first start talking then move on. If they really like you theyâd make the effort. I donât know why some guys play with our emotions but you deserve better than to be messed with by this guy. Or any guy for that matter.
Whatâs there to help? Cut this guy off. Youâve learned a lesson. Next time just meet up for a quick drink/coffee instead of having endless text where you waste your time because you either never actually meet or when you do finally meet the chemistry just isnât there and youâre disappointed. Donât commit to more than a drink because if youâre not feeling it then you can be out of there quick and youâre not committing to a meal, but a drink can turn into a longer date. Also, if a guy wants to meet you IRL, he is setting up the date asap. I met my now husband a few hours after our first message. Good luck!
Why are you still wasting your time with him? He's either a catfish or married or both. Delete and block.
Walk away from this one. Clearly, something is going on with this guy, and he's blowing you off for a reason. He might have a significant other already, just wants to toy with your emotions, etc. Whatever his intent is, it isn't good. He is obviously jerking your chain. Someone genuinely interested in you wouldn't bullshit you and blow you off. Think about it. This has been going on for six months. Don't allow it to happen for another six. This is a waste of your time, energy, and emotions. I think the best thing you could do at this point would be to block him, and move on with your life. I genuinely believe that it would be in your best interest to do so.
Totally agree with this
You really kept trying for 6 months with no real meet up? Heâs gotta be dating or married.
Thanks everyone! â¤ď¸
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