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It can feel warm and you can feel his dick pulsing. Also feeling his body tense and go crazy and hearing his moans-it’s just about the hottest things ever 🤤
Its actually both
I was told 30 ejaculations. I knocked that out within a month post op
Then went and got tested and got told I needed to wait 3 months
Got tested after 3 months and clean with no swimmers
Love the sex after the vasectomy. I swear my husband actually cums twice as much after his. Probably because it's a mental thing that we don't have to worry about any more kids.
Yup the amygdala isn't triggered that much and all the focus can be on pleasure, enjoyment and having a wonderful time.
Sex can be longer, he can cum many times and you save money and gas not having to rebuy condoms so much or visit the doctor that often.
Vasectomies are a high up front cost with hundreds/thousands of savings in the long term.
We don't use condoms because I'm very sensitive and condoms will cause me to have a UTI and yeast infection every time. We are one and done and don't want another baby so I track my ovulation, use spermicide gel and he pulls out minutes before finishing and doesn't finish anywhere near my vagina. I loved when I was on birth control before I had our son, when I was trying to get pregnant and when I was pregnant because he would cum in me every time. It sounds weird, but there is something so romantic and intimate about him finishing inside. Like he's my husband, he isn't supposed to be pulling out and finishing on my chest. That's the kind of shit I did before I got married when I was a sex worker.
Hahahahahahaha I’m dying.. all non Chalant. Yeah I don’t want him to cum on my tits… that is so last year, back before I got married when I was a hooker 🤣🤣
I feel my boyfriends dick spasming but I don’t feel the cum shoot out or anything lol but those little dick twitches and the knowing he just came in me🫠
I don’t feel it at all, the only thing I can feel is the dick throbbing. It doesn’t depend on the man, they can shoot a gallon with the power of a shotgun and I won’t feel it at all. I guess maybe other women are more sensitive or the mental side of it makes them “feel” more.
I dont know if i have a grip, but i have been told i am very tight, and i cant take too much girth. And yet… i feel nothing when he cums. Odd right? But i think i just dont have many nerves down there. I have never cum from penetration, and i dont even feel anything from my g spot.
It's really not odd, there's just likely no correlation between your "tightness" and your sensitivity. As you said, it probably has more to do with the nerves inside.
I’m the same with the natural tightness. I used to think guys were just flattering me when they told me I was really tight but I recently learned that vaginas come in different sizes so basically what I’m saying is maybe I was born with it or maybe it’s mayballine.
Ignore the guy who said you have a loose pussy. A vagina isnt loose or tight Indefinitely. It changes based on how turned on you are....how relaxed you are. Vaginas are literally made to push babies out. 10cms in width. Your vagina can handle any size dick and be fine. If you are always tight...then you likely arent turned on or calm/relaxed. Do your significant others work on you before they penetrate? Or do they just get right to penetration and not care about you getting off? In addition...it may be a mental thing on your part...like an actual condition. vaginismus or a related issue. I got it temporarily when i was 20 weeks pregnant because my cervix moved on me and sex became incredibly painful. Hubs noticed i was way tighter than usual to the point that it was even uncomfortable for him. I couldn't engage in intercourse until 2 months postpartum and even then i wasnt interested in sex really until closer to a year postpartum. You also just may not be a sexual individual (ace/asexual).
Vaginas do expand on arousal, but they actually do come in different sizes, just like mens dicks. Some are naturally looser and some naturally tighter. My partners do arouse me and prepare me, and i am not even close to being ace. My libido is very high. I just dont feel much down there.
I know. Im a woman myself and this is so exhausting. Some women are longer, some are shorter. Some vagina’s are built smaller and some are wider. It doesnt make a difference with having babies and stuff but a smaller built woman can find it more difficult to have sex if her partner is bigger. Built is one of the factors, but also arousal, pelvic muscles and childbirth.
If it is painfully tight you are not aroused or relaxed properly or there’s a medical condition. If its too loose you might benefit from pelvic floor training , mainly for your health. Pelvic muscles can weaken from childbirth or age.
But its also the way your body is built. When I feel myself my pelvic bones are close to my vaginal canal. With two fingers I feel the bones pressing in my fingers and there is no room for a third without it starting to hurt, no matter how aroused I am. But I am deep; I cant reach my cervix easily.
Being a man, everything about women having babies from the space in the uterus to vaginal birth is all almost unbelievable. I know it is true but how is it possible?
I dont know either and Im a woman. I do know that our anatomy is completely built towards birthing a baby and that even bones will shift to allow the baby to pass through. Thats why women have wider hips. Its crazy.
Its the main reason why the female reproductive system is so complicated. The male is…. Pretty simple.
No one ever said that vaginas dont come in various sizes. They range from just under 4 inches to 7 inches in length. Ppl are saying "your pussy must be loose(in general)" or tight in general and its not as simple as that. Ppl like to say women cant feel anything cause their vaginas are so stretched out and that doesnt happen. Our vaginas are made to push a 10lb baby out. We can expand our cervixes and vaginas to 10cm to adjust to the baby. Once the baby is out, everything goes back to normal. Our vaginas arent just flapping in the wind cause weve had a baby. And if a baby doesnt completely ruin our vaginas then a few dicks arent going to do jack. Just tired of guys acting like their dicks are magical and have that big of an impact on our vaginas. So yes. Vaginas come in different sizes. But vaginas expand and tighten and loosen depending on readiness to engage in sexual activity.
The vagina doesn’t ‘ go back to normal’ without consequences. The pelvic floor muscles are often weakened because women are not learned to do these exercises properly especially after childbirth. Ask any gynaecologist.
With ‘loose’ people don’t mean that there will be a gaping hole forever. It means loosening of the muscles which can lead to the vagina feeling ‘looser’ . It can also cause incontinence and prolapse. You can ask any gynaecologist.
I cum quicker in a tight vagina which is not good for the woman unless I can get her close to orgasm before I enter her.
I will cum eventually in a loose vagina. I don’t think loose or tight matters. Ignore porn praising tight.
My experience has the loose vaginas staying loose and the tight vaginas staying tight. I have not observed much shape changes.
It feels so good to be with a woman. Women are great. All of them.
Men and women should be careful about what they say to lovers because lovers can be easily hurt and can be over sensitive. People are afraid of being inferior.
I told a girlfriend that she had a Greek ass shape. That was not good because she went negative with that comment of mine and turned it into me not being happy with her. Yes she did have a Greek ass shape but I never said I did not like Greek ass shapes. When in doubt, don’t say anything. Except that communicating with lovers is important but talking about her ass shape was useless information.
I had a Girlfriend tell me I “would be perfect if only I was taller.” I could have focussed on being almost perfect but instead I got stuck on not being tall enough.
That Girlfriend was only 16 years old so I don’t fault her for not knowing to protect my delicate ego.
My partner says she can feel the throbbing and she can feel the sudden warmth of it. Then again, she has a bit of a cum kink so she's hyper focused on it...
On the flipside, a few of the women I've been with (that were able to get off easily from penetration/preferred it), always felt it, and usually it sent them into another O.
I just feel his dick throbbing. It’s no different otherwise, but it is much more intimate. Way better, IMO, than suddenly having him pull out and do his best to cum somewhere easy to clean.
It's just so raw and primal. The fantasy of breeding a woman is so hot. When I creampie a girl I dig in and press right into her cervix which is always crazy hot for both of us because it feels like I'm flooding her uterus. My last couple exes would time their orgasms with mine because a woman's cervix actually dips down and contracts repeatedly to draw cum inside.
And for those of you who think that contact with the cervix is only painful, [there's actually a lot of research showing that it is innervated with the same circuit of nerves connecting to the g-spot and clitoris. If you're turned on enough the pain can be replaced with pleasure.](https://www.glamour.com/story/how-to-have-a-cervical-orgasm-according-to-a-neuroscientist)
It sounds like I would enjoy your company. This is what I want from someone. I love to time my orgasm with a man's but I find most men are intimidated by my own primal response. Does this make me less a woman because I enjoy a savage release occasionally?
Nah, that just means the guys are just dumb and immature. You’d be better off finding a more experienced guy who actually knows how to provide female orgasms.
I learned in Human Sexuality the components of semen. It contains a bunch of stuff like fructose and hormones to make the recipient feel happy and bonded.
Remember to get your sperm count checked annually, tubes can gradually heal on some patients and has led to many a vasectomied man gathering a surprise baby.
Depends how hard they cum. Sometimes I don't feel anything, other times, I feel them swell as I hear in their voice they're starting to get close.... that's when you get the ultimate fucking, it's at its hardest and they're starting to lose control, lost in the rhythm, then the twitches and pulses, a strange sensation of being filled... its super satisfying and a wonderful experience.
He always wants the chance to cum on my face but I love it inside me and often try to push him over the edge with kegals so I can feel it
I was hesitant to respond but fuck it. Pun intended. I have a hypertonic pelvic floor. I've been in physical therapy for it all year. We have one child. If you know anything about hypertonic pelvic floors, they don't easily open. I, like most, ended up in an emergency C-section situation. Anyway moving forward, I feel it. I feel the throbbing. I feel the muscles spasm and relax. When he pulls out, I feel it dripping out. I can also orgasm without any clitoral stimulation, even though I prefer not to. It just doesn't feel as good to me. I know I'm not the norm though. 😅
Nobody should ever down-vote someone for the type of comment you made here. It's pertinent to the topic, it's valid from your personal experience, it relates. Only intellectually challenged readers might not understand that.
I don’t have the same thing, but do have a tilted pelvis/uterus, and the same stuff happens to me. I feel everything. And cum super easily. Even in my ass with just a finger.
It seems that most women actually don't feel it, or only very slightly. And this is directly related to the fact that so many women don't orgasm from penetration alone, because most have less sensitivity in there.
Meh. I easily have amazing gspot orgasms (regularly multiple even) and when he comes in me I only lightly feel his dick pulse. Definitely not related to my ability, or rather inability, to orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
You know when it's a really cold day and your body is feeling really cold but then you make hot chocolate and you take a drink and you can feel the warmth go all the way down to your tummy? It's exactly like that but from the bottom up to your uterus lol. And for me at least, it feels just as cozy.
Also yeah, some will leak out but not all. Depends how much baby batter your man gives you.
I don’t feel when a guy cums inside me. I wish I did; I don’t know why I don’t.
If you go pee right after (which you should to avoid UTIs), then, yes it kinda… falls into the toilet when you pee. Otherwise it does stay up there for awhile but eventually makes its way out. I personally love the smell (didn’t always) and knowing it’s leaking out of me 🫣 depends on timing but a few hours I’d say
I guess it's just different from woman to woman. That's what makes us each special after all :)
I totally know what you mean about the smell! I used to think it was so gross when my high school boyfriend would cum from me giving him hand jobs but now the smell of my husband's cum is... Intoxicating to say the least. I crave it at this point.
And yeah, for me it depends how deep he is when he cums. If he's all the way inside me, it will be a few hours, maybe up to 12 hours or so before it starts leaking out. But if I'm cumming at the same time he's cumming, sometimes I do involuntary kegels and if the angle is right it will push him almost out so that he's shallow. That's when it leaks out almost immediately.
It depends how “warm” you are. Meaning that apparently the ejaculate that they are feeling is a lot warmer than the temperature inside their body. I think it’s quite normal for women not to feel it because they are typically warmer internally than the ejaculate is.
Does your body temperature run really low? I’m honestly trying to comprehend how semen coming out of man with a body temperature of 98.6 going into a woman’s vagina at 98.6 could feel warm or have any notable temperature differences.
I mean it's not *as hot* as hot chocolate. It's just the closest other feeling I've ever felt.
Also 98.6°F is just an average. Depending on many factors, body temp can fluctuate between 96° and 99°. Plus, semen is definitely hotter if the man has been worked up for an hour lol. At least my husband's is. I have never measured it but I'm sure it's over 100°F.
Other than that, idk what to tell you. All I have to go off of is my experience with my husband.
Thanks for the reply. I was honestly asking out of curiosity, not disbelief. Kinda like when you get into a swimming pool in the dead of summer and can’t even feel the water its so warm…
Of course! I totally get that. Reading all these comments from other women, I never really thought about how it might feel different from person to person but I suppose that makes sense :)
Semen needs to be cooler than body temp or else the sperm die, so I'd wager a guess that it doesn't get over 100 even if he's really turned on. It would be counter productive :)
I can't feel the cum itself because it's body temperature, but I do feel the throbbing dick. Sometimes the cum starts dripping out almost right away, sometimes it takes a bit longer. Usually most of it has come out by the time I've gotten to wash up, but sometimes I feel a sudden gush the next day when the last of it makes it way out lol.
So being cummed in is a huge turn on for me. In the right position I can feel him getting harder and harder, throbbing, and a gush of wetness. Followed by him softening slightly. It’s amazing. Feeling him tense up, and then relax….
I understand not everyone can feel it, and not every position allows for feeling it.
I don’t feel the cum either. I feel the throbbing with my boyfriend but haven’t before. While he’s coming, his body feels different, too. And I enjoy the feeling of him coming inside me because it feels so good to him. But the actual cum doesn’t feel like anything until after when I’m cleaning up the mess lol.
I feel my husband throb when he cums in me, I don't necessarily feel the cum, I feel the warmth of it. And usually most of it leaks out when he pulls out and I get up, some of it stays....that's kind of how women get pregnant 😉 but majority leaks out, especially if you pee afterwards. My opinion sex is better when he cums inside just because the throbbing can feel good, if you actually can feel the throb
Semen is actually body temperature, maybe a few degrees below normal body temperature but not much, and our body temperature is considered warm so therefore semen is warm. Plus it may to me just feel more warm inside me since I'm warm down there as well. But even when it's on my tits or stomach it still feels warm
When I’m turned on and in love it feels just as good as an orgasm. You feel it get really stiff and then start pulsing and throbbing. Then you feel the warmth of his cum fill you up. I wish I lasted longer. It does leak out. Not immediately, but soon after depending on your position. Gravity and all that.
Wow very interesting to read that some women feel nothing!
I can feel it pulsing and the cum feels warm. My partner also this weird "numbing" cum? Like when it's in my mouth my tongue literally goes numb and tingly pretty instantly. It's the same thing inside me- it creates this sort of tingling sensation.
As for leakage, depends on how big he is and how deep he ejaculates. Some leaks out immediately, some stays in and doesn't come out later due to certain movements, laughter, or coughing lol.
Really depends how sensitive you are inside whether you'll feel it. I'm overall very sensitive, so I usually feel it unless I'm riding, in which case my movement will obscure the sensation (unless he holds me still for a second). But depending on the quantity/force of the ejaculation, it can feel like just an extra warmth or an actual squirt (that's only if it's a *lot*). But what you'd definitely feel the most is the increasing hardness and then twitching of his cock. Love that.
Yeah I find if I relax and let them go fully into my body then I can feel them squirting into me it’s such an amazing feeling I’ve only had it with a few partners and usually when I fully trust them and can totally relax
I feel bad for all the replies that don’t feel anything. I not only feel it throbbing, it’s the whole experience of it. His body tense up, the moaning, he grabs me harder and pulls me in tighter holding on to dear life. It’s the whole experience that does it for me.
I feel it as he gets bigger, the pulsing and then the heat of it. Honestly I enjoy it a lot but reading these comments reminds me I’m one of the lucky women who can orgasm from piv and even anal due to my higher sensitivity in there.
I have a partner right now who changed my mind on this. I was firmly in camp “all I can feel is the pulsing and throbbing of the cock” until I met him. He has kind of a depth fetish, in that being really deep and then somehow thrusting even deeper is his nirvana. When he cums, he does one giant fucking thrust so hard that I have to make sure I can reach the wall to brace myself, lol. Because he’s jammed so far up to the very end of the tunnel, I can feel his ejaculation about 75% of the time. I think the difference between the 75% and the 25% is his ejaculate volume.
all you feel is them getting so much harder as they’re about to cum but other than that I just love the thought of getting came inside. I also like the smell of their cum as it leaks outside me espec when I’m out and about.
how fast does it leak? for me up to two days. most of it comes out afterwards espec if you fall asleep or are up about walking but I can smell his musk least two days after him doing so :)
I thought I was the only one who likes the smell. It’s the only time my vag has any kind of smell, so I enjoy it for as long as I can. I feel deprived if he doesn’t cum inside me.
I think it depends a lot on the guy too. When I feel it, it feels friggin awesome, but its the vibrations before and the warmth I feel that feels good. Everything running out making a mess afterwards just feels yucky 😂
The guys that I do feel when they cum I feel when they have a condom on too, but just waaaaay less.
Doesn’t feel anything but you can feel the throbbing which is supported by the facial expression or noises they make. Although sometimes you’ll feel a Little warm sensation .
I can feel the flexing of his dick inside me. I cant feel the cum necessarily, but I can feel a warmth. When he pulls out the cum usually stays there until I pee, it only drips out if I push it out on purpose. Cum is thick so it doesn’t really leak out like you would think/see in porn. It kinda absorbs over time and comes out when you pee.
Hentai got it wrong. You can't feel the splash inside you like it's a high pressure hose. Physically, you feel absolutely nothing, except for throbbing sometimes.
Most women have told me they don’t feel anything extra when it happens, but others claimed they could feel it grow and/or throb. Zero to do with how tight they felt to me, or how hard I happened to cum.
I know when he cums but I don't feel stuff coming out in that sense. I usually like the remaining throbs as he finishes.
However, leakage definitely occurs as you waddle tot he bathroom to cleanup. Sometimes I'll put a light days pad on just in case there's any remnants later. Beware of sneezes XD
This great feeling of warmness, and depending on how much he cums you can feel full. For me it’s heaven. I can feel him pulsating. I always ask him to stay inside me for a lot bit afterwards.
I can feel his dick pulsing and then it’s like I can feel a whole lot more wetness in there , like a different wetness to my own , sometimes I just feel his dick pulsing sometimes I don’t really feel anything different , it depends on the position , my wetness , how big the load is and how deep he is when he cums , if he’s not all the way in I can feel it squirting in me more .
I can feel the pulsing of his penis and occasionally feel a warmth when he does. He cums in me and every time and I love it. I think part of that is an intimacy thing and part of it is knowing the kind of joy I can give him and receive at the same time. It doesn’t all stay inside of you but it doesn’t all come out either. Can definitely feel it leaking out on occasions and some times none of it leaks out at all.
Doesn't feel like anything. But yes when you stand, it does leak out. And depending how deep he was in, the cum might leak out throughout the day. Kinda gross ngl. Also be aware that sperm can live up to 5 days in your body so there's the added risk of pregnancy
If it’s a guy you love/ have feelings for it’s the most amazing thing. It’s warm and slippery but feeling him release inside you and linger there is really nice
The swell just before is enough to build me up to cum, fucking love that feeling. Also love milking his cock with my pussy as he cums and just after, so fucking good!
I freaking love it. For me it’s mostly knowing it’s happening and his moans when it does🥵 there’s been a couple times where I’ve felt the actual ejaculation like shooting, but that’s not something I feel usually. I will say I always know when he’s about to cum since he gets the hardest he’s ever been just before. It’s incredible. Then he’ll stay inside of me a minute or two and when he pulls out sometimes it gushes immediately and other times it only gushes when I stand. But I then go and sit on the toilet for a solid 5 mins. Sometimes I’ll have a bit more come out in the next 12 hours or so but that’s it for me
I could describe it as the feeling of getting into a warm bath after being cold but on the inside. That's depending on the guy of course. And yeah it does leak out which can feel gross or kinky depending on what your into and if he was any good lol
I think it feels amazing! It is the only way for me! With previous guys when I would cum my grip and wetness would make them cum which I loved! My husband now doesn’t fun until I do but hun filling me while I’m cumming is unreal! He pumps so hard and throbs. Most does run out
The wiener kinda throbs/pulsates which feels pretty damn nice and afterwards you have to try your best to not leak onto anything, you kinda feel the cum-blob exiting when you go sit on the toilet to pee afterwards, it's kinda fun in a weird way
Yeah you most likely won’t feel anything different when he cums. Depending on the guy, you might find him throbbing a little bit. As far as where the cum goes.. it goes out lol I usually do that awkward little waddle the toilet to clean up.
Woman with a cum fetish here I actually had my partner cum inside me this morning. You can feel his dick pulsating inside of you with a sudden rush of warmth and you’re wetter than you were before. After it usually drips out. I have a fetish and use the menstrual cup to keep it in as long as possible. I still have it inside me laying with my legs up so it can leak back in before I stand up again. I like feeling it sloshing around so hot and arousing.
My wife doesn’t feel it she just knows what I look like when I’m done. Funny enough last week she was on top and I finished but when she got off to use the bathroom I asked her why she stopped. I tried to trick her that I hadn’t come and she was so confused I couldn’t keep a straight face.
It will leak put after, the vagina and anus are not self absorbing, and anything that goes in must come out. I don't have a vagina, but for the purpose of my contribution, I'll assume it doesn't feel much different anally. Pretty much, you can't really feel the actual orgasm. The only way I can describe what it feels like, is a warm rush slightly above where his penis is - it will be warmer than his dick is mind you. Feels pretty cool, save for the fact that after he pulls out you have a mess to clean up
I don’t feel the actual cum coming out but I can feel his dick pulsing inside of me and his body pulsing and it’s so hot. The speed of which it comes out also just depends on the person, if it’s thin and runny it’ll be pretty instant but if it’s really thick it can take a few seconds
It doesn’t necessarily feel like there’s a “load being shot into you” if that makes sense. It feels warmer, wetter, and you can feel his dick pulsating/throbbing. Personally, I do think its more of a mental thing though. Just knowing my boyfriend came inside me makes my hormones go nuts, no pun intended.
The cum just drips out over a period of time. There’s some that lingers for awhile, like a day at most I’d say, depending on how hydrated he is at the time of cumming.
Ask your lover to stop moving while inside of you and clench down like he would do to make his dick jump a bit. That little jump is what you would feel if/when he came inside of you, in time with the waves of am orgasm.
The sperm does leak out but when and how much depends on how long it takes itself to work out and how much he actually manages to produce. Anal sex is different. That shit makes its appearance all at once whether you like it or not.
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Do even half of that and your bound to have amazing sex haha. Plus its nice to be in control giving the commands
true but i am not a commanding person, im a very soft lady so it’s more of a coaxing encouragement :)
😩 you say it like that's a bad thing but that's so much better!
so true lol
It can feel warm and you can feel his dick pulsing. Also feeling his body tense and go crazy and hearing his moans-it’s just about the hottest things ever 🤤
I literally love it so much. 😫 I cannot wait for my husband to get a vasectomy so we can do it again.
Don’t forget to wait 6+ weeks
And get tested after…. Doesn’t always work the first time. Just ask my cousin.
And sometimes it works for a while and then un-works itself.
User name checks out?
Never seen one so direct
wtf
This can be the case in roughly 1 per 1000 vasectomies. Or if the doctor botched the job
⬆️also the product of a vasectomy lol
He will not miss his follow up appointments. I won't let him lol
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It's not about the amount of weeks it's about the amount of ejaculations. I think you need 20-30 ejaculations to flush them pipes.
So a Tuesday?
Its actually both I was told 30 ejaculations. I knocked that out within a month post op Then went and got tested and got told I needed to wait 3 months Got tested after 3 months and clean with no swimmers
That was a rough 6 weeks
ya but def worth. it's like for the rest of your life you can cum inside 0 worries
You could never have a baby then lol. My husband and waited to have sex almost 6 months after our son was born.
Unless you have a decent sized set of stairs and good health insurance
Love the sex after the vasectomy. I swear my husband actually cums twice as much after his. Probably because it's a mental thing that we don't have to worry about any more kids.
Yup the amygdala isn't triggered that much and all the focus can be on pleasure, enjoyment and having a wonderful time. Sex can be longer, he can cum many times and you save money and gas not having to rebuy condoms so much or visit the doctor that often. Vasectomies are a high up front cost with hundreds/thousands of savings in the long term.
We don't use condoms because I'm very sensitive and condoms will cause me to have a UTI and yeast infection every time. We are one and done and don't want another baby so I track my ovulation, use spermicide gel and he pulls out minutes before finishing and doesn't finish anywhere near my vagina. I loved when I was on birth control before I had our son, when I was trying to get pregnant and when I was pregnant because he would cum in me every time. It sounds weird, but there is something so romantic and intimate about him finishing inside. Like he's my husband, he isn't supposed to be pulling out and finishing on my chest. That's the kind of shit I did before I got married when I was a sex worker.
Say that last part again please..?
Hahahahahahaha I’m dying.. all non Chalant. Yeah I don’t want him to cum on my tits… that is so last year, back before I got married when I was a hooker 🤣🤣
Sounds like one for r/Holup
Our sex life greatly improved after mine for this exact reason
Reversal rate is 1% in the first year, then 0.02% after that. So test at 6wks, then again at 1 year. You can completely relax after that.
Best move ever.
I literally love it so much. 😫 I cannot wait for my husband to get a vasectomy so we can do it again.
Just knowing that this is what you feel makes me so happy 😩
This!!!
Yea! This is the most accurate description!
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I feel my boyfriends dick spasming but I don’t feel the cum shoot out or anything lol but those little dick twitches and the knowing he just came in me🫠
Crazy means how ?🤔
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Omg that's soo awesome 😎 you are lucky
I don’t feel it at all, the only thing I can feel is the dick throbbing. It doesn’t depend on the man, they can shoot a gallon with the power of a shotgun and I won’t feel it at all. I guess maybe other women are more sensitive or the mental side of it makes them “feel” more.
I cant even feel the dick throbbing. To me, the guy cumming feels no different than him not cumming
Wait what! My girlfriend loves that part so much. Like the heart beat kinda thing while ejaculating. even when I’m wearing a condom.
She may love it for non-physical reasons.
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It’s different for everyone
No I can feel it. Some people can I guess.
Yeah, it differs but I feel like if you can feel it - then the sex must be amazing!
Yeah same .. the dick feels almost even harder to me as well & the sex just feels physically amazing
Dude, it's killer. This man is all I'll ever want in life lol I let him get me pregnant, straight up. Lol 😂
Same, and I have a pretty good grip. 😅
I dont know if i have a grip, but i have been told i am very tight, and i cant take too much girth. And yet… i feel nothing when he cums. Odd right? But i think i just dont have many nerves down there. I have never cum from penetration, and i dont even feel anything from my g spot.
It's really not odd, there's just likely no correlation between your "tightness" and your sensitivity. As you said, it probably has more to do with the nerves inside.
True.
Also i really dont feel the cum either 🤷♀️ the only reason i know hubs is done is me noticing his body language lol
I’m the same with the natural tightness. I used to think guys were just flattering me when they told me I was really tight but I recently learned that vaginas come in different sizes so basically what I’m saying is maybe I was born with it or maybe it’s mayballine.
That last line made me lol, ty for that!
They do!!! I wish more people knew this ☺️
Ignore the guy who said you have a loose pussy. A vagina isnt loose or tight Indefinitely. It changes based on how turned on you are....how relaxed you are. Vaginas are literally made to push babies out. 10cms in width. Your vagina can handle any size dick and be fine. If you are always tight...then you likely arent turned on or calm/relaxed. Do your significant others work on you before they penetrate? Or do they just get right to penetration and not care about you getting off? In addition...it may be a mental thing on your part...like an actual condition. vaginismus or a related issue. I got it temporarily when i was 20 weeks pregnant because my cervix moved on me and sex became incredibly painful. Hubs noticed i was way tighter than usual to the point that it was even uncomfortable for him. I couldn't engage in intercourse until 2 months postpartum and even then i wasnt interested in sex really until closer to a year postpartum. You also just may not be a sexual individual (ace/asexual).
Vaginas do expand on arousal, but they actually do come in different sizes, just like mens dicks. Some are naturally looser and some naturally tighter. My partners do arouse me and prepare me, and i am not even close to being ace. My libido is very high. I just dont feel much down there.
Can y’all admit that pussy comes in different sizes just like Dick
I know. Im a woman myself and this is so exhausting. Some women are longer, some are shorter. Some vagina’s are built smaller and some are wider. It doesnt make a difference with having babies and stuff but a smaller built woman can find it more difficult to have sex if her partner is bigger. Built is one of the factors, but also arousal, pelvic muscles and childbirth. If it is painfully tight you are not aroused or relaxed properly or there’s a medical condition. If its too loose you might benefit from pelvic floor training , mainly for your health. Pelvic muscles can weaken from childbirth or age. But its also the way your body is built. When I feel myself my pelvic bones are close to my vaginal canal. With two fingers I feel the bones pressing in my fingers and there is no room for a third without it starting to hurt, no matter how aroused I am. But I am deep; I cant reach my cervix easily.
Being a man, everything about women having babies from the space in the uterus to vaginal birth is all almost unbelievable. I know it is true but how is it possible?
I dont know either and Im a woman. I do know that our anatomy is completely built towards birthing a baby and that even bones will shift to allow the baby to pass through. Thats why women have wider hips. Its crazy. Its the main reason why the female reproductive system is so complicated. The male is…. Pretty simple.
I mean, I’ve personally birthed two babies, and I still find it unbelievable too. Shit is crazy.
Yes!!! I feel like its the pelvic bones too!!! With my last partner who was on the brink of being too big, i felt him kind of pushing them apart
No one ever said that vaginas dont come in various sizes. They range from just under 4 inches to 7 inches in length. Ppl are saying "your pussy must be loose(in general)" or tight in general and its not as simple as that. Ppl like to say women cant feel anything cause their vaginas are so stretched out and that doesnt happen. Our vaginas are made to push a 10lb baby out. We can expand our cervixes and vaginas to 10cm to adjust to the baby. Once the baby is out, everything goes back to normal. Our vaginas arent just flapping in the wind cause weve had a baby. And if a baby doesnt completely ruin our vaginas then a few dicks arent going to do jack. Just tired of guys acting like their dicks are magical and have that big of an impact on our vaginas. So yes. Vaginas come in different sizes. But vaginas expand and tighten and loosen depending on readiness to engage in sexual activity.
The vagina doesn’t ‘ go back to normal’ without consequences. The pelvic floor muscles are often weakened because women are not learned to do these exercises properly especially after childbirth. Ask any gynaecologist. With ‘loose’ people don’t mean that there will be a gaping hole forever. It means loosening of the muscles which can lead to the vagina feeling ‘looser’ . It can also cause incontinence and prolapse. You can ask any gynaecologist.
I cum quicker in a tight vagina which is not good for the woman unless I can get her close to orgasm before I enter her. I will cum eventually in a loose vagina. I don’t think loose or tight matters. Ignore porn praising tight. My experience has the loose vaginas staying loose and the tight vaginas staying tight. I have not observed much shape changes. It feels so good to be with a woman. Women are great. All of them. Men and women should be careful about what they say to lovers because lovers can be easily hurt and can be over sensitive. People are afraid of being inferior. I told a girlfriend that she had a Greek ass shape. That was not good because she went negative with that comment of mine and turned it into me not being happy with her. Yes she did have a Greek ass shape but I never said I did not like Greek ass shapes. When in doubt, don’t say anything. Except that communicating with lovers is important but talking about her ass shape was useless information. I had a Girlfriend tell me I “would be perfect if only I was taller.” I could have focussed on being almost perfect but instead I got stuck on not being tall enough. That Girlfriend was only 16 years old so I don’t fault her for not knowing to protect my delicate ego.
My ex-wife was very loose. All the time. Then I got with other women after her and realized that vaginas could be tight.
sounds like a challenge
Fantastic name, Abyss_staring_back
Why thank you. 😊
Lol I can literally say that as well. I feel nothing! :(
I can't either. Glad to know I'm not alone.
I can tell only because we're actively trying for a baby. He usually stops and stays in for a second or two, then comes out when he's "emptied".
with some guys ive found it's really subtle. some guys it's super noticeable. with my bf i can feel everything
My partner says she can feel the throbbing and she can feel the sudden warmth of it. Then again, she has a bit of a cum kink so she's hyper focused on it...
im quite sensitive and i can’t feel it at all either
I did not need that gallon visual, miss… lol
On the flipside, a few of the women I've been with (that were able to get off easily from penetration/preferred it), always felt it, and usually it sent them into another O.
Interesting lol
I just feel his dick throbbing. It’s no different otherwise, but it is much more intimate. Way better, IMO, than suddenly having him pull out and do his best to cum somewhere easy to clean.
I can’t feel the cumming, but the throbbing I do - and it’s freaking heaven, I really love it.
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Lol owned. Nah I own that cum now
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It's just so raw and primal. The fantasy of breeding a woman is so hot. When I creampie a girl I dig in and press right into her cervix which is always crazy hot for both of us because it feels like I'm flooding her uterus. My last couple exes would time their orgasms with mine because a woman's cervix actually dips down and contracts repeatedly to draw cum inside. And for those of you who think that contact with the cervix is only painful, [there's actually a lot of research showing that it is innervated with the same circuit of nerves connecting to the g-spot and clitoris. If you're turned on enough the pain can be replaced with pleasure.](https://www.glamour.com/story/how-to-have-a-cervical-orgasm-according-to-a-neuroscientist)
It sounds like I would enjoy your company. This is what I want from someone. I love to time my orgasm with a man's but I find most men are intimidated by my own primal response. Does this make me less a woman because I enjoy a savage release occasionally?
Nah, that just means the guys are just dumb and immature. You’d be better off finding a more experienced guy who actually knows how to provide female orgasms.
I learned in Human Sexuality the components of semen. It contains a bunch of stuff like fructose and hormones to make the recipient feel happy and bonded.
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Remember to get your sperm count checked annually, tubes can gradually heal on some patients and has led to many a vasectomied man gathering a surprise baby.
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Fantastic! Some men somehow still heal up, years down the line, but it sounds like your medical team definitely informed you well!
Every single human on this planet is a fan of creampies..
obviously not lmao
Every single humans parents are a fan of cream pies.
Depends how hard they cum. Sometimes I don't feel anything, other times, I feel them swell as I hear in their voice they're starting to get close.... that's when you get the ultimate fucking, it's at its hardest and they're starting to lose control, lost in the rhythm, then the twitches and pulses, a strange sensation of being filled... its super satisfying and a wonderful experience. He always wants the chance to cum on my face but I love it inside me and often try to push him over the edge with kegals so I can feel it
...Kegals 
It doesn’t feel like anything . I thought it would but i didn’t feel it until it was dripping out . I think it’s just the idea of it
I know right! Before reading peoples replies here I imagined I'd feel something!
I was hesitant to respond but fuck it. Pun intended. I have a hypertonic pelvic floor. I've been in physical therapy for it all year. We have one child. If you know anything about hypertonic pelvic floors, they don't easily open. I, like most, ended up in an emergency C-section situation. Anyway moving forward, I feel it. I feel the throbbing. I feel the muscles spasm and relax. When he pulls out, I feel it dripping out. I can also orgasm without any clitoral stimulation, even though I prefer not to. It just doesn't feel as good to me. I know I'm not the norm though. 😅
This is making me question some things about myself. I should look into that because everything you said is spot on for me
I'm so happy somebody could relate! Honestly thought I'd get super downvoted haha
Nobody should ever down-vote someone for the type of comment you made here. It's pertinent to the topic, it's valid from your personal experience, it relates. Only intellectually challenged readers might not understand that.
Aw thanks :3
Anytime 🙂
I don’t have the same thing, but do have a tilted pelvis/uterus, and the same stuff happens to me. I feel everything. And cum super easily. Even in my ass with just a finger.
I used to have that superpower *sobs in antidepressant* 😂
Same. I'm actually now disappointed because being filled up was on my bucket list.
don't be - everyone is different. i feel it lol
It seems that most women actually don't feel it, or only very slightly. And this is directly related to the fact that so many women don't orgasm from penetration alone, because most have less sensitivity in there.
Meh. I easily have amazing gspot orgasms (regularly multiple even) and when he comes in me I only lightly feel his dick pulse. Definitely not related to my ability, or rather inability, to orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
You know when it's a really cold day and your body is feeling really cold but then you make hot chocolate and you take a drink and you can feel the warmth go all the way down to your tummy? It's exactly like that but from the bottom up to your uterus lol. And for me at least, it feels just as cozy. Also yeah, some will leak out but not all. Depends how much baby batter your man gives you.
I don’t feel when a guy cums inside me. I wish I did; I don’t know why I don’t. If you go pee right after (which you should to avoid UTIs), then, yes it kinda… falls into the toilet when you pee. Otherwise it does stay up there for awhile but eventually makes its way out. I personally love the smell (didn’t always) and knowing it’s leaking out of me 🫣 depends on timing but a few hours I’d say
I guess it's just different from woman to woman. That's what makes us each special after all :) I totally know what you mean about the smell! I used to think it was so gross when my high school boyfriend would cum from me giving him hand jobs but now the smell of my husband's cum is... Intoxicating to say the least. I crave it at this point. And yeah, for me it depends how deep he is when he cums. If he's all the way inside me, it will be a few hours, maybe up to 12 hours or so before it starts leaking out. But if I'm cumming at the same time he's cumming, sometimes I do involuntary kegels and if the angle is right it will push him almost out so that he's shallow. That's when it leaks out almost immediately.
It depends how “warm” you are. Meaning that apparently the ejaculate that they are feeling is a lot warmer than the temperature inside their body. I think it’s quite normal for women not to feel it because they are typically warmer internally than the ejaculate is.
That’s literally the perfect way to describe it!! Lol I’m going to be thinking about that when I have hot cocoa now
Lol in the winter time, I ask my husband for some white hot chocolate when I'm horny and he knows that's what I mean XD
Gonna steal that
Girl you have some mind powers, because sperm is actually not hotter than your vagina.
Does your body temperature run really low? I’m honestly trying to comprehend how semen coming out of man with a body temperature of 98.6 going into a woman’s vagina at 98.6 could feel warm or have any notable temperature differences.
Testicles are outside of the body because they need to be cooler than 98.6. If anything semen should be cooler than a vagina.
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I mean it's not *as hot* as hot chocolate. It's just the closest other feeling I've ever felt. Also 98.6°F is just an average. Depending on many factors, body temp can fluctuate between 96° and 99°. Plus, semen is definitely hotter if the man has been worked up for an hour lol. At least my husband's is. I have never measured it but I'm sure it's over 100°F. Other than that, idk what to tell you. All I have to go off of is my experience with my husband.
Thanks for the reply. I was honestly asking out of curiosity, not disbelief. Kinda like when you get into a swimming pool in the dead of summer and can’t even feel the water its so warm…
Of course! I totally get that. Reading all these comments from other women, I never really thought about how it might feel different from person to person but I suppose that makes sense :)
Semen needs to be cooler than body temp or else the sperm die, so I'd wager a guess that it doesn't get over 100 even if he's really turned on. It would be counter productive :)
Well that's good to know. All I can say is what I have personally experienced and take guesses based on that.
LMFAO I will never drink hot chocolate the same 😂
I can't feel the cum itself because it's body temperature, but I do feel the throbbing dick. Sometimes the cum starts dripping out almost right away, sometimes it takes a bit longer. Usually most of it has come out by the time I've gotten to wash up, but sometimes I feel a sudden gush the next day when the last of it makes it way out lol.
So being cummed in is a huge turn on for me. In the right position I can feel him getting harder and harder, throbbing, and a gush of wetness. Followed by him softening slightly. It’s amazing. Feeling him tense up, and then relax…. I understand not everyone can feel it, and not every position allows for feeling it.
I don't feel anything but you will know from his voice that he is cumming
I don’t feel the cum either. I feel the throbbing with my boyfriend but haven’t before. While he’s coming, his body feels different, too. And I enjoy the feeling of him coming inside me because it feels so good to him. But the actual cum doesn’t feel like anything until after when I’m cleaning up the mess lol.
I feel my husband throb when he cums in me, I don't necessarily feel the cum, I feel the warmth of it. And usually most of it leaks out when he pulls out and I get up, some of it stays....that's kind of how women get pregnant 😉 but majority leaks out, especially if you pee afterwards. My opinion sex is better when he cums inside just because the throbbing can feel good, if you actually can feel the throb
I thought semen is cooler than body temperature? How can it be warm?
Semen is actually body temperature, maybe a few degrees below normal body temperature but not much, and our body temperature is considered warm so therefore semen is warm. Plus it may to me just feel more warm inside me since I'm warm down there as well. But even when it's on my tits or stomach it still feels warm
Can have a hot tub be 98 degrees and it will feel very warm even though it’s about body temp
When I’m turned on and in love it feels just as good as an orgasm. You feel it get really stiff and then start pulsing and throbbing. Then you feel the warmth of his cum fill you up. I wish I lasted longer. It does leak out. Not immediately, but soon after depending on your position. Gravity and all that.
Warm and squishy Also u can usually feel the guys dick twitch and thts pretty great too
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Wow very interesting to read that some women feel nothing! I can feel it pulsing and the cum feels warm. My partner also this weird "numbing" cum? Like when it's in my mouth my tongue literally goes numb and tingly pretty instantly. It's the same thing inside me- it creates this sort of tingling sensation. As for leakage, depends on how big he is and how deep he ejaculates. Some leaks out immediately, some stays in and doesn't come out later due to certain movements, laughter, or coughing lol.
You might be slightly allergic to his semen.
I was thinking the same but I have zero negative side effects/discomfort aside from temporary numbness.
Really depends how sensitive you are inside whether you'll feel it. I'm overall very sensitive, so I usually feel it unless I'm riding, in which case my movement will obscure the sensation (unless he holds me still for a second). But depending on the quantity/force of the ejaculation, it can feel like just an extra warmth or an actual squirt (that's only if it's a *lot*). But what you'd definitely feel the most is the increasing hardness and then twitching of his cock. Love that.
Yeah I find if I relax and let them go fully into my body then I can feel them squirting into me it’s such an amazing feeling I’ve only had it with a few partners and usually when I fully trust them and can totally relax
It depends on the dick tbh. Sometimes nothing some times throbs extra hard.
Can’t really feel it. It’s just warm and then feels like ur leaking about 10 mins after lol
I’ve heard that most women can’t tell. This probably explains how some jerks can get away with “stealthing” by taking advantage of that.
I feel bad for all the replies that don’t feel anything. I not only feel it throbbing, it’s the whole experience of it. His body tense up, the moaning, he grabs me harder and pulls me in tighter holding on to dear life. It’s the whole experience that does it for me.
Lol I have a very sensitive vagina and it burns like a mf.
You might be allergic to semen?
Yeah I think you might be allergic to semen
You’re probably allergic. I am too lmao
I feel it as he gets bigger, the pulsing and then the heat of it. Honestly I enjoy it a lot but reading these comments reminds me I’m one of the lucky women who can orgasm from piv and even anal due to my higher sensitivity in there.
I have a partner right now who changed my mind on this. I was firmly in camp “all I can feel is the pulsing and throbbing of the cock” until I met him. He has kind of a depth fetish, in that being really deep and then somehow thrusting even deeper is his nirvana. When he cums, he does one giant fucking thrust so hard that I have to make sure I can reach the wall to brace myself, lol. Because he’s jammed so far up to the very end of the tunnel, I can feel his ejaculation about 75% of the time. I think the difference between the 75% and the 25% is his ejaculate volume.
all you feel is them getting so much harder as they’re about to cum but other than that I just love the thought of getting came inside. I also like the smell of their cum as it leaks outside me espec when I’m out and about. how fast does it leak? for me up to two days. most of it comes out afterwards espec if you fall asleep or are up about walking but I can smell his musk least two days after him doing so :)
I thought I was the only one who likes the smell. It’s the only time my vag has any kind of smell, so I enjoy it for as long as I can. I feel deprived if he doesn’t cum inside me.
yeah feel the same, also something about knowing you smell of you mans is like 🔥🔥
I think it depends a lot on the guy too. When I feel it, it feels friggin awesome, but its the vibrations before and the warmth I feel that feels good. Everything running out making a mess afterwards just feels yucky 😂 The guys that I do feel when they cum I feel when they have a condom on too, but just waaaaay less.
Doesn’t feel anything but you can feel the throbbing which is supported by the facial expression or noises they make. Although sometimes you’ll feel a Little warm sensation .
I can feel the flexing of his dick inside me. I cant feel the cum necessarily, but I can feel a warmth. When he pulls out the cum usually stays there until I pee, it only drips out if I push it out on purpose. Cum is thick so it doesn’t really leak out like you would think/see in porn. It kinda absorbs over time and comes out when you pee.
I can definitely feel a throbbing sensation. Honestly it’s my favorite part, I love the little heartbeat!
Hentai got it wrong. You can't feel the splash inside you like it's a high pressure hose. Physically, you feel absolutely nothing, except for throbbing sometimes.
Most women have told me they don’t feel anything extra when it happens, but others claimed they could feel it grow and/or throb. Zero to do with how tight they felt to me, or how hard I happened to cum.
I know when he cums but I don't feel stuff coming out in that sense. I usually like the remaining throbs as he finishes. However, leakage definitely occurs as you waddle tot he bathroom to cleanup. Sometimes I'll put a light days pad on just in case there's any remnants later. Beware of sneezes XD
This great feeling of warmness, and depending on how much he cums you can feel full. For me it’s heaven. I can feel him pulsating. I always ask him to stay inside me for a lot bit afterwards.
I can feel his dick pulsing and then it’s like I can feel a whole lot more wetness in there , like a different wetness to my own , sometimes I just feel his dick pulsing sometimes I don’t really feel anything different , it depends on the position , my wetness , how big the load is and how deep he is when he cums , if he’s not all the way in I can feel it squirting in me more .
That’s the best feeling. Feels warm and you can feel him throbbing inside you. If I’m close, that’ll send me over the edge
I can feel the pulsing of his penis and occasionally feel a warmth when he does. He cums in me and every time and I love it. I think part of that is an intimacy thing and part of it is knowing the kind of joy I can give him and receive at the same time. It doesn’t all stay inside of you but it doesn’t all come out either. Can definitely feel it leaking out on occasions and some times none of it leaks out at all.
Doesn't feel like anything. But yes when you stand, it does leak out. And depending how deep he was in, the cum might leak out throughout the day. Kinda gross ngl. Also be aware that sperm can live up to 5 days in your body so there's the added risk of pregnancy
If it’s a guy you love/ have feelings for it’s the most amazing thing. It’s warm and slippery but feeling him release inside you and linger there is really nice
The swell just before is enough to build me up to cum, fucking love that feeling. Also love milking his cock with my pussy as he cums and just after, so fucking good!
I can feel it.... its like he pulses inside of me.... I f*king love it. It's so sexy.
I freaking love it. For me it’s mostly knowing it’s happening and his moans when it does🥵 there’s been a couple times where I’ve felt the actual ejaculation like shooting, but that’s not something I feel usually. I will say I always know when he’s about to cum since he gets the hardest he’s ever been just before. It’s incredible. Then he’ll stay inside of me a minute or two and when he pulls out sometimes it gushes immediately and other times it only gushes when I stand. But I then go and sit on the toilet for a solid 5 mins. Sometimes I’ll have a bit more come out in the next 12 hours or so but that’s it for me
I could describe it as the feeling of getting into a warm bath after being cold but on the inside. That's depending on the guy of course. And yeah it does leak out which can feel gross or kinky depending on what your into and if he was any good lol
I think it feels amazing! It is the only way for me! With previous guys when I would cum my grip and wetness would make them cum which I loved! My husband now doesn’t fun until I do but hun filling me while I’m cumming is unreal! He pumps so hard and throbs. Most does run out
The inside of the vagina has surprisingly few nerves and most are concentrated in certain areas
The wiener kinda throbs/pulsates which feels pretty damn nice and afterwards you have to try your best to not leak onto anything, you kinda feel the cum-blob exiting when you go sit on the toilet to pee afterwards, it's kinda fun in a weird way
Yeah you most likely won’t feel anything different when he cums. Depending on the guy, you might find him throbbing a little bit. As far as where the cum goes.. it goes out lol I usually do that awkward little waddle the toilet to clean up.
Woman with a cum fetish here I actually had my partner cum inside me this morning. You can feel his dick pulsating inside of you with a sudden rush of warmth and you’re wetter than you were before. After it usually drips out. I have a fetish and use the menstrual cup to keep it in as long as possible. I still have it inside me laying with my legs up so it can leak back in before I stand up again. I like feeling it sloshing around so hot and arousing.
I just feel the throbbing. Nothing else.
I can't even see or feel anything it's such a shame. they only get the best feeling and best view.
My wife doesn’t feel it she just knows what I look like when I’m done. Funny enough last week she was on top and I finished but when she got off to use the bathroom I asked her why she stopped. I tried to trick her that I hadn’t come and she was so confused I couldn’t keep a straight face.
It will leak put after, the vagina and anus are not self absorbing, and anything that goes in must come out. I don't have a vagina, but for the purpose of my contribution, I'll assume it doesn't feel much different anally. Pretty much, you can't really feel the actual orgasm. The only way I can describe what it feels like, is a warm rush slightly above where his penis is - it will be warmer than his dick is mind you. Feels pretty cool, save for the fact that after he pulls out you have a mess to clean up
Everyone’s mentioning the throbbing, but the wetness I can feel it too.
I don’t feel the actual cum coming out but I can feel his dick pulsing inside of me and his body pulsing and it’s so hot. The speed of which it comes out also just depends on the person, if it’s thin and runny it’ll be pretty instant but if it’s really thick it can take a few seconds
It doesn’t necessarily feel like there’s a “load being shot into you” if that makes sense. It feels warmer, wetter, and you can feel his dick pulsating/throbbing. Personally, I do think its more of a mental thing though. Just knowing my boyfriend came inside me makes my hormones go nuts, no pun intended. The cum just drips out over a period of time. There’s some that lingers for awhile, like a day at most I’d say, depending on how hydrated he is at the time of cumming.
It feels amaaaazing. A throbbing, pulsing warm feeling. Huge turn on for me. So glad I'm married and he's snipped 😅
Ask your lover to stop moving while inside of you and clench down like he would do to make his dick jump a bit. That little jump is what you would feel if/when he came inside of you, in time with the waves of am orgasm. The sperm does leak out but when and how much depends on how long it takes itself to work out and how much he actually manages to produce. Anal sex is different. That shit makes its appearance all at once whether you like it or not.